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When it comes to solo masturbation, you can't do any better than a pocket pussy! Pocket pussies are great if you've been looking for a way to spice up those masturbation sessions. They're excellent intimacy replicators; after using a pocket pussy for the first time, you'll wonder why you waited so long!
When it comes to self-pleasure, there's a world of products out there for men. While the sex toy industry used to be focused exclusively on women, nowadays, there are many male sex toys and masturbation aids to enhance your solo sex life.
Although that's not to say pocket pussies can't be used in couple's play! Bringing one into the bedroom is fun; having your partner use it on you is an intense experience that will get you both incredibly hot. They're great for combatting the side effects your partner may feel if you suffer from delayed ejaculation. If you've been having a long session, your partner might begin to chafe - a perfect time to get the pocket pussy out and have them finish you off.
Pocket pussies come in many shapes, sizes, and textures. That's why we've created the pocket pussy guide!
We're going to run you through everything you need to know about these fantastic devices and give you some pocket pussy tips to get the optimal performance out of your toy.
What is a Pocket Pussy
Pocket pussies are the ultimate masturbation toy designed for men. They're a handheld male masturbator that mimics the look and feel of a vagina. Most pocket pussies come with a discreet case on the outside and a masturbation sleeve on the inside that you insert your penis into - but they can also come as just a sleeve.
The sleeves are typically made of premium-grade TPE or silicone and come with different textures and designs. Some pocket pussy sleeves come with an inner canal that is ribbed or contains pleasure beads that provide incredibly realistic and pleasurable sensations while they caress your member.
Depending on the pocket pussy, the sleeve will feel different. There's no blanket "best" pocket pussy; it's a personal choice and will be different for every person.
Pocket pussies arent necessarily modeled after the vagina - they also come in oral and anal variants. The name covers all manner of discreet strokers and toys designed to bring you to mind-blowing orgasms - perhaps the most famous is the Fleshlight pocket pussy.
What are the main features of a pocket pussy?
- Ultra-realistic human-like designs that make you feel as though you're having sex with a vagina, a mouth, or an anus
- Bumpy or ribbed textured sleeves that replicate the feeling of a real vagina
- Super soft TPE or premium-grade silicone sleeve that feels skin smooth
- Body-safe material construction
- Pocket pussies can either be open-ended or closed-end: open-ended are easier to clean, but closed creates a light suction that you'll be able to feel when you thrust, adding to the realism
- Varied sleeve girth and tightness, so you can pick the one that works best for you
- Some pocket pussy designs are molded directly on real-life porn stars
- Portable design
- Discreet and easy to clean and maintain
How Do You Use a Pocket Pussy?
- First up, you need to clean the pocket pussy. Using warm water and an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner, clean the inner canal and the outside of the pocket pussy.
- Lube up! Before you get started, make sure to use a good amount of water-based lubricant on both your penis and the inside of the toy. Avoid oil or silicone-based lubricants, as they'll degrade your silicone sex toy.
- Slowly insert your penis into your pocket pussy, preferably with a partial erection. Taking your time will allow you to feel the full sensation the pocket pussy sleeve provides and help the lube spread through the inner canal.
- It's time to speed up. You can go as fast as you want: find a good position and thrust yourself to orgasm!
- Clean and dry your pocket pussy with warm water and soap or a sex toy cleaner, depending on the material of the inner sleeve.
We've got a fully comprehensive guide for pocket pussy use available here. It contains tips for getting the maximum pleasure out of your toy, pocket pussy recommendations, and other helpful information!
Benefits of Using a Pocket Pussy
There are numerous benefits to using a pocket pussy. They're not merely male sex toys that help you achieve a fantastic orgasm; they have a number of scientifically backed health benefits associated with them!
Stamina-building to counter premature ejaculation
Research has shown that masturbation techniques help improve your sexual stamina and erectile function. Edging (a common technique where a man masturbates up to the point of orgasm but stops before actual orgasm) has clinical backing that shows it helps men last longer.
There have also been clinical studies into the role that a masturbator can play in treating premature ejaculation (PE) - with excellent results! Patients saw a marked improvement in their ability to last longer during sex and had significantly higher levels of sexual satisfaction.
There are many pocket pussies available that specialize in stamina training, all designed to help you last longer and gain control over your premature ejaculation.
Erectile Dysfunction
Regular use of a pocket pussy can improve your erectile function and help treat erectile dysfunction (ED). A 2023 study has proven that strokers are excellent tools for combatting ED.
Doctors gave patients a masturbator and a list of masturbatory techniques to use over an eight-week period. After two months, the patient's erectile hardness scores had increased substantially, as had their ability to combat PE.
Regular pocket pussy use will have a positive effect on your sex life and overall sexual satisfaction in general.
A pocket pussy will help strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, akin to performing Kegels (another exercise with proven ED combatting abilities). Regular pocket pussy use will have a positive effect on your sex life and overall sexual satisfaction in general.
Can be used for partner play
All sex toys are versatile - even a toy that may seem a solo enterprise will surprise you when you bring it into the bedroom with a partner. A pocket pussy can invigorate your bedroom routine; having someone else use it on you is an unmatched feeling. If you and your partner are interested in a threesome, a pocket pussy is a great way to test the waters.
Mutual masturbation is fun. Whether part of foreplay or an alternative to full penetrative sex, your partner will enjoy both watching you use and using the pocket pussy on you.
For Solo Play
Pocket pussies are unmistakably great for solo play. Masturbating with your hands can get boring if that's all you have going on. That's why a pocket pussy is a perfect aid to spice up those solo sessions! You'll be able to embrace the fantasy aspect of penetrating a realistic vagina, keeping things fresh and exciting in the bedroom.
Practice for real sex
If you're inexperienced in the bedroom, a pocket pussy could be all you need to cultivate your skills. The quickest way to reduce any anxiety is practice, and a pocket pussy is excellent for that. You'll be able to figure out what you're doing long before attempting the real thing; you can work on different techniques and practice maintaining a thrusting rhythm.
Compatible with other sex toys
An added benefit of the pocket pussy is that you can use it with other sex toys. They excel when used with an automatic masturbator or alongside a cock ring. But a pocket pussy can also provide intense pleasure with other devices like bullet vibrators, penis-plumping creams, or anal toys.
Avoid death-grip syndrome
Many men suffer from death-grip syndrome - a loss of sensation in the penis from using an overly firm grip during masturbation.
While you may find yourself orgasming quickly during masturbation, the death-grip syndrome can make it a struggle to orgasm during sex.
Delayed ejaculation is a severe condition, but masturbation aids have been proven to help combat it. The sleeve of a pocket pussy determines the tightness of your masturbation sessions, so you won't have to worry about any loss of sensation.
Types of Pocket Pussy Sex Toys
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How to Choose a Pocket Pussy
If you're interested in purchasing a pocket pussy but don't know where to begin, you should keep these key features in mind. Understanding the key features most pocket pussies have will help narrow down the features you want on your own.
Shape and Size
Pocket pussies come in a variety of shapes and sizes. If you know your penis length, it will help ensure that you get a pocket pussy that will give you maximum pleasure. You should check the pocket pussies insertion length, instead of the total length, to decide whether it's the right one for you.
If you choose a pocket pussy that's too long, you'll miss out on experiencing the full sensation of the toy, and one that's not long enough won't stimulate your entire penis. You should also factor in how tight the pocket pussy is and the shaping of the inner canal.
There's a pocket pussy out there to fit you regardless of size or girth.
There are varying tightnesses, so if you're worried your penis is too thin or thick, looking at how tight the grip is will tell you if that particular pocket pussy is right for you. There's a pocket pussy out there to fit you regardless of size or girth.
Texture and Material
The texture and material of the pocket pussy are paramount to your enjoyment. Where possible, you should pick a pocket pussy made with real-feel TPE or medical-grade silicone, as these will provide you with the best feeling possible. They're also easier to clean.
However, what sets the higher-quality pocket pussies apart is the texture of the inner canal.
Some pocket pussies inner canals are smooth, which, while enjoyable, don't hold a candle to a textured canal.
The pocket pussies with a textured inner canal, however, are high-quality and will quickly have you reaching earth-shattering orgasms. They have soft bumps and ridges to stimulate the shaft, and many have beads or particles inside to stimulate you in all manner of erotic ways while you thrust in and out.
Some inner canals provide suction, which makes them feel like a blowjob. Other sleeves come with different textures and areas throughout, ensuring your member receives an exciting amount of stimulation that is as exciting as it is satisfying.
Vibration
Vibrating pocket pussies enhance sexual stimulation by including a small bullet vibrator (or multiple) that discreetly fits within the inner canal. These vibrators come with variable speed modes and can turn an exciting toy into a mind-blowing experience.
Experimenting with different combinations of vibrations and thrusting allows you to find what works best for you.
Some vibrating strokers also work wonders for stamina training. If you're interested in purchasing a pocket pussy, one with a vibration setting is sure to please!
Remote control
Remote-control sex toys have taken the world by storm. These pocket pussies can be controlled remotely over Bluetooth using an app or, occasionally, a dedicated handset. Remote control pocket pussies usually include some vibration and motion functions, allowing you to control the speed and intensity.
What sets these pocket pussies apart is the interactivity the remote control brings to masturbation.
App-controlled toys can be remote controlled by your partner wherever they are in the world!
They're excellent for providing long-distance intimacy, and often they can interact with other toys - a crazy experience that is revolutionizing long-distance play. If you travel a lot for business and find your sex life dwindling, a remote control pocket pussy could be the interactive sex toy you need to bring those embers back to life.
Hands-Free
If you're after a genuinely hands-free masturbation experience, there are countless pocket pussies out there that offer this. Their purpose is to stimulate your penis while leaving your hands free for any other bodily pleasure you wish.
These pocket pussies act as automatic masturbators or blowjob machines - they'll provide sucking sensations and vibrations to lead you to orgasm
At the same time, you can focus entirely on the pleasure or touch yourself elsewhere. They're rechargeable and user-friendly, all you have to do is insert your penis, turn them on, and you'll be in a world of pleasure.
Hands-free pocket pussies do all the work, so you don't have to!
Tips to make a Pocket Pussy feel even better
Pocket pussies provide amazing, intense orgasms. Here are some tips and tricks to maximize the pleasure you can get from your pocket pussy!
Use a Warmer
Warming your pocket pussy before use adds to the realism, but it also feels fantastic. Replicating the feeling of a real vagina requires heat, and thrusting into a tight, warm pocket pussy covered in lube is one of the closest-to-actual-sex feelings a toy can provide.
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Change up your grip
Grip strength can impact the sensations from a pocket pussy. A lot of pocket pussies are designed so that an increase or decrease in grip strength will change the feeling of the inner sleeve. Using different grip strengths is a great way to mimic different levels of tightness, and you can vary the experience as much as you like.
One fun trick to change the sensation is to switch up the hand you're using to hold it. It feels like an entirely new experience with a different speed, angle, and grip than you're used to. It's an excellent technique to provide realistic variety to your pocket pussy sessions.
Use only the sleeve
Removing the inner sleeve from the outer case is a great way to change the sensations from your pocket pussy. There's a noticeable difference in feel when you remove the sleeve from the case; it's almost like having a second toy!
You can play with different grip strengths, which will change the texture of the inner canal, making your pocket pussy feel like a completely different toy.
Make it hand-free
If you don't have a dedicated hands-free pocket pussy, we'll let you into a tip: they can all be made hands-free. Look around your house and try and find a creative way to fix your pocket pussy in place. Perhaps try it between pillows, couch cushions, or your mattress and bed frame.
The possibilities are there; you just need to find something that holds your pocket pussy stable and works for you. It might be slightly tricky to set up at first, but once you get the hang of it, you'll feel as though you're having sex with an actual person.
Use lots of lube
Lube is essential for getting the most out of your pocket pussy! Silicone and TPE pocket pussies can cause friction if they're not lubricated correctly - something that will quickly take away the realism and your enjoyment.
Make sure to apply a generous amount of water-based lube to the pocket pussy and yourself before use.
A friction-free experience is what you're after with a pocket pussy, and nothing beats that!
There are so many different types of lube on the market that can help intensify your pleasure. You might enjoy using a cooling or warming lube with your pocket pussy to enhance the sensation, and there are even numbing lubes if you're interested in an extra-long pleasure session.
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Use it with a partner
As we've mentioned before, pocket pussies are fantastic couple's play toys. It's an entirely different experience having your partner in charge of your pocket pussy - they'll love seeing you respond to their use of it, and it leaves you free to stimulate them with the rest of your body.
You'll also experience a new level of pleasure with someone else in charge of it, leading you to a more intense climax. Pocket pussies are enjoyable toys to use with a partner, and you're doing yourself a disservice if you own one but haven't yet involved it in the couple's play.
Pocket Pussy Hygiene Tips
We can't understand the importance of cleaning your sex toys after use. The pocket pussy is no exception! Moisture and warmth are the perfect breeding grounds for all sorts of bacteria. If you're ejaculating into a closed-end pocket pussy it's going to become quickly become disgusting if you're not cleaning it after use.
We also recommend cleaning your sex toys (pocket pussies included) before use.
Although you will not have used them, dust and germs can accumulate while they're in storage - especially if they're not adequately dry or stored inappropriately!
Properly cleaning and caring for your pocket pussy is the key to longevity. Cleaning your pocket pussy doesn't have to be a chore and can typically be done quickly and easily.
Inspect for damage
Always inspect your pocket pussy for damage before cleaning. Using a faulty device can bring on a whole host of problems, and you don't want something like that near your most sensitive areas!
You should check your pocket pussy for cracks and tears in the surface of the stroker. They're excellent breeding grounds for bacteria and incredibly hard to clean.
Cracks in a sex toy are also likely to grow larger over time, so keeping an eye on them is a good idea.
You should also look out for any discoloration, which many different things can cause. Often discoloration of a stroker indicates that your lubricant is degrading the toy, which can happen if you use an oil or silicone-based lubricant on a silicone toy.
However, the discoloration can also indicate that your cleaning fluid is incompatible with your pocket pussy. If you can't figure out why the discoloration is occurring, it may indicate that the material is breaking down - in which case, it's time to replace your pocket pussy!
Changes in the texture and rough or raised areas are natural products of a toy aging. If these impact your pleasure when using your pocket pussy, it's probably time for a replacement.
Wash and rinse the sex toy
A little caveat before we begin: do not turn your sex toy inside out to clean it. This stress can cause the pocket pussy to rip and tear, damaging it. Also, only use soap on a pocket pussy sleeve made of silicone - for any TPE sleeves, use an anti-bacterial toy cleaner.
If you have a non-waterproof pocket pussy or one with electric components, avoid these measures. Instead, opt for a damp microfiber cloth and a cleaning spray.
With that said, first of all, you need to rinse the toy thoroughly. Flush warm water throughout it before and after use. If you use a closed-end pocket pussy, spread the opening and run water inside it. You can then gently use your fingers to clean the inside.
Once you have rinsed the toy and removed the lube and other fluids, use warm water and soap to clean the outer case.
Use either soap and water or a dedicated toy cleaner for the sleeve, depending on whether it's silicone or TPE. Use your fingers or a soft sponge to clean the sleeve's inside thoroughly.
Once you've finished, rinse the toy thoroughly once more to remove all cleaning fluids.
Dry and store them properly
Finally, you must ensure the pocket pussy is as dry as possible. Moisture breeds bacteria and mold, so you should try and remove as much excess water as possible by shaking or squeezing the toy. Avoid using a towel or cloth to dry it, instead leaving the sleeve to air dry in a cool, dry room (perhaps with a fan blowing on it.)
Once the toy is completely dry, it's time to store it appropriately. If you can't tell if the sleeve is dry enough, use your fingers to check there's no dampness in the inner canal. If everything is good, ensure you store the pocket pussy in a box in a cool, dry place.
Sex toys often come packaged with a bag for storing them in. As a general rule of thumb, if you buy a sex toy, you should use a bag if it comes with the packaging.
FAQs
What are the Dos and Don'ts in cleaning a pocket pussy?
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Do I need a certain type of lubricant for my pocket pussy?
Pocket pussies are only compatible with water-based lubricants. TPE and silicone-based pocket pussy sleeves will degrade with oil or silicone-based lubricants, so make sure to avoid them.
Can I use a condom with my pocket pussy?
One important thing to note is that pocket pussies are condom compatible, but you MUST ensure you're not using pre-lubricated condoms. Pre-lubricated condoms usually use a silicone-based lubricant which, as mentioned before, will degrade your pocket pussy!
Need help in choosing the right condom?
Check out our essential guide and selection tips here:
Summary
Pocket pussies are great devices for enhancing both solo and partner play. The choices are endless: vast variations exist between size, textures, canal sensations, and model designs. Pocket pussies provide additional benefits over purely intense orgasms - science shows they can improve erectile function, PE, ED, and sexual satisfaction.
If you're struggling to choose a pocket pussy, you should familiarize yourself with our buying guide's key features.
Pocket pussies are some of the most realistic sex toys on the market, and depending on the model come with a host of additional features.
If you were curious about pocket pussies use, types, and functions, our guide is the ultimate resource for any queries you may have. With our help, you should be able to decide on the pocket pussy that is right for you!