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What is a Pocket Pussy and How do you Use One | The Most Popular Sex Toys for Men

by Danny Garrett August 21, 2019

the pocket pussy by The Enhanced Male

Pocket pussies and male masturbators

A complete guide for the curious and adventurous

 

When people talk about sex toys, they're usually thinking about vibrators for women. But there’s a whole universe of toys out there for men, designed to enhance sexual pleasure whether alone or with a partner. This article looks at one of the most popular sex toys for men; the male masturbator, or pocket pussy, as it’s often known. It also answers some of the questions you might never have dared to ask…such as how to use a picket pussy.

 

What is a pocket pussy?

 

Simply put, a pocket pussy is a handheld male masturbator sleeve that closely resembles the look and feel of a female’s vagina.  Over time the term pocket pussy has expanded not only to cover other body parts such as a mouth or butt, but also discreet strokers and other devices which are designed to get a guy to orgasm.  There is no such thing as “the best pocket pussy”, this is a very personal choice and best will depend on each person.

 

So, how do you use a pocket pussy?

 

That’s the easy part. Using your masturbator in 6 simple steps

 

  1. Clean the inside (canal) and outside of the pocket pussy with warm water and an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner (yes, before you use it, you want to ensure cleanliness)
  2. Use a liberal amount of your favorite water-based sex lube on your penis as well as inside the stroker (Water-Based lube is much safer to use with sex toys, silicone and oil can ruin the masturbator material)
  3. Insert your penis into the opening of the masturbator (preferably with an erect penis, if you suffer from erectile dysfunction, check out some solutions to help achieve harder erections)
  4. Thrust back and forth while your penis is inside
  5. Blow your load (Learn how to cum like a porn star!)
  6. Repeat step 1, Clean…Clean…Clean 

 

 

 

 

History of male masturbators

 

Wank like an Egyptian

In ancient times, a good wank was seen as a healthy way for guys to stay sexually primed and keep their reproductive systems in tip-top condition. The ancient Egyptians openly and publicly celebrated masturbation[i], believing it was how the universe was born. Because of this, Pharaoh—alongside his subjects—recreated the ritual each year on the banks of the Nile.

 

Egyptian male masturbators

 

In the years after the Old Testament attitudes changed, and taboos began to build. These days, however, we know that the ancients were on to something. It’s mentally and physically healthy for guys to jack off regularly. And that's regardless of how often they have sex with a partner[ii].

 

Is that a pussy in your pocket?

It’s probably no surprise to learn that male masturbators have been around for a long time. But it wasn't until 1960 that the Supreme Court legalized sex shops and guys could buy one without risk of prosecution. That 'under-the-counter’ culture made male sex toys a bit of a taboo subject—and guys that bought them seen as just a little bit creepy.

 

But these days, men have nothing to worry about in this regard. You can thank the Internet for this game-change. And gone are the times when you bought a male masturbator just because you weren't getting any real action. Indeed, today’s pocket pussies are designed to compliment foreplay and help enhance sexual performance. The Fleshlight was the first of this new breed. It has a wholly unique and realistic feel and aims to bring sexual stamina training to the forefront. While also helping you have a lot of fun and giving you a load of pleasure at the same time, of course.

 

Sahsa Grey Pocket Pussy

Material world

Silicone is the material of choice for most sex toys, and cock strokers are no exception. They are safer than many other materials on the market and, if you buy a high-quality product, it can last a lifetime with proper use and care.

 

Most pocket pussies are made with TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomers) or TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber) which are also known as Ultra Realistic 3.0 (UR 3.0), Refined Touch, and Cyberskin materials. These materials combine silicone with PVC or other plastics to offer a realistic skin-like feel and heightened sexual arousal. UR 3.0 and similar materials will deteriorate if used with silicone, oil or petroleum-based lubricants—so only use water-based lubes. That’s good advice for any sex toys, by the way.

 

pocket pussy and male masturbation education

 

Masturbating with purpose

Erectile Dysfunction

You’ll find that getting your rocks off with a male masturbator is a whole different experience from using your hand. Most guys will tell you it’s an entirely new, incredible sensation—one that will help you discover more about your body and your desires. But pocket pussies have added benefits for some guys with Erectile Dysfunction (ED) and Premature Ejaculation (PE). We call it, “masturbating with purpose.”

 

Us guys have been told for a long time that having a wank can cause ED, but nothing is further from the truth. In fact, medical opinions suggest that infrequent ejaculation can lead to ED[iii]—so regularly jerking off will keep you running (and cumming) like a well-oiled machine.

 

erectile dysfunction and masturbating

Guys with ED and those that find intimacy difficult can still sometimes get an erection when masturbating. Getting down with a pocket pussy either on your own or with a partner may also help with ED by providing an alternative way to get hard and reducing the “performance anxiety” that’s sometimes linked specifically to full-on intercourse. Whether or not you have ED, it’s worth trying your pocket pussy with a cock ring so you can keep having fun for even longer. 

 

Stamina-building to counter premature ejaculation

Masturbation helps guys build up stamina and last longer. That’s a fact. That's why men with PE are encouraged to try 'edging’ or the 'start-stop’ technique'[iv]. To get edging right, you need to practice regularly for some time before trying it with a partner. Sounds like a win-win situation, eh guys? It's worth giving it a try with male delay cream too, to see if that works for you and to find out how much longer you can last.

 

Edging on your own will give you a realistic idea of how far you can go, the best rate to build up the intensity and the point of no return when you just have to blow your load. Using a male masturbator alone or with your partner before actual intercourse can also help you last longer for the main event. Just make sure you remember you’re in it for the long game—don’t roll-over and go to sleep!

 

Fleshlight STU Pocket Pussy

 

The shape of things to cum

Although often referred to as pocket pussies, you can find male masturbators in a range of shapes, textures, and colors that also simulate oral or anal sex. There are vibrating options and discreet ones that you can throw in your weekend bag. There are also hands-free ones that get to work on your dick in ways you have never imagined. Some have even been painstakingly designed to look like your favorite porn star’s genitalia. The most popular being the Sasha Grey Cream Pie.  At the other end of the spectrum are male masturbators complete with lifelike boobs, thighs, and butts—as well as ultra-realistic pussies. They could be an option if you want to practice your all-over-body technique or tossing off between a pair of silicone tits.   

 

If that's not your thing, there’s a growing range of pocket pussies that don't look like orifices at all—particularly the most compact and portable ones. Some guys prefer this more subtle approach. It's one that can work in partner scenarios too if you don’t want your toys to mimic a generic or specific human body.

 

fuck-me-silly-masturbator

Partner play

While we're talking about partners, plenty of guys bring pocket pussies to bed with their partners. Whether its part of foreplay or an alternative to full-on intercourse (or just the first round of the night), guys enjoy getting tossed off by their partners, and a pocket pussy will enhance this experience.

 

But why should you have all the fun? A bit of mutual masturbation is an excellent way to spice things up. Some partners also enjoy watching the other get off and cumming. In both these scenarios, a pocket pussy can take things a step further and open up new pathways to pleasure and sexual adventure. 

 

One word of advice: make sure you talk this idea through with your partner first. We’ve come a long way with sexual liberation. However, if a lover introduces a toy, it’s possible, some partners may feel deficient. Be open about why you want to use one and explain how it will bring enhanced enjoyment for both of you.

 

Get lubed up

We don’t need to explain how to use a pocket pussy. Just make sure you use water-based lube. Lube will make it much easier to slide your dick in and give you a more realistic, pleasurable experience.

 

Pocket pussies can be used with other sex toys too, including cock rings and penis enlarging cream and delay spray. Transparent versions give you the same realistic feeling. But they let you watch as you get hard and then shoot your load. Try them with a penis plumping cream for an even hotter, harder dick. 

 

Whether you're using a pocket pussy on its own or with other toys, remember to be hygienic and clean up afterward. We recommend antibacterial products but suggest that you check manufacture guidelines for the best option for your toy.  

 

The future is here…

Pocket pussies and male masturbators continue to develop in terms of sophistication and technology. Still, a lot of guys out there prefer the ease of a stroker—many of which are rib-lined for end-to-end stimulation.

 

But for guys looking an extra touch of realism, a growing number of manufacturers have developed pocket pussies that warm up to body temperature or offer external warming rods that fit inside the toy. Bluetooth enabled masturbators have recently come on to the scene which allow people to use their strokers to the motion of porn or a Bluetooth enabled dildo.  Others have hands-free phone holder slots so you can watch porn at the same time as you get yourself off. Both these developments suggest a new era of realism for sex toys might be just around the corner. One where virtual headsets can sync with your pocket pussy to deliver a multi-sensory experience. Hang on to your cocks guys, it’s going to be a wild ride!

 

Make sure you buy from a reputable source and invest in a high-quality product. A cheap pocket pussy can contain unregulated materials that have been banned from use in other sectors, so do your research.

 

[i] The sacred mystery of public masturbation ceremonies in ancient Egypt

[ii] Are there side effects to masturbation?

[iii] Erections:useit or lose it?

[iv] Can edging improve your sex life? Here's what you need to know

Danny Garrett
Danny Garrett

Daniel Garrett is a certified sexual wellness expert through the Eldorado Sexual Health Board where he graduated with honors. Daniel's specialty is helping marriages as well as other relationships which struggle with having a healthy sexual presence. When a man is uncertain about his manhood it leaves him with a sense of self-doubt which typically will start to deteriorate any sexual relationship he may have with any partner. By helping men overcome their interpersonal self-doubt issues regarding their penis size and sexual function, Daniel is able to help heal relationships and help take these same relationships to the next level. Daniel's writing can be found on such websites such as The Enhanced Male, Marriage.com, as well as many others. Daniel has helped develop such relationship tools as silicone cock rings to help men achieve lasting results in bed.