If you're one of the millions of people who own a silicone sex toy, chances are you're going to want to keep it functioning as it should. No surprise really - not only do silicone toys feel great, but silicone is also a premium sex toy material, so it makes sense to protect the investment in your sex life by using the right lube.
The trouble is, there are literally thousands of lubricants on the market - and that's before you explore other substances and products that can be used as lube. How can you tell whether your chosen lube is going to be compatible with your toy without applying it and hoping for the best?
Fortunately, the team of experts at The Enhanced Male is here to help. In this guide, we'll talk about the best kind of lube for sex toys made of silicone. We'll also explore 10 of the best lube options on the market in 2025 - which means less time researching and more time enjoying your toy!
The Best Lube for Silicone Sex Toys: The Basics
Before we jump in and look at specific products, there are some lubricant fundamentals that it's important to cover if you're the owner of a silicone toy.
- There are some lubes that should not be used with silicone toys.
- Oil-based lubes are very difficult to clean and can therefore cause bacteria to build up - either on the toy or internally. For this reason, we strongly recommend that you avoid the use of oil-based products with sex toys.
- Secondly, silicone lube is unsuitable for use with silicone toys because the two kinds of silicone will react with each other, significantly damaging your toy. Again, avoid using silicone lube with a silicone sex toy.
- Water-based lubes are perfect for use with silicone toys. They are easy to clean, perfectly safe to use internally and externally, and will not damage your toy. If you prefer a lube that's slightly longer-lasting, it's also safe to use a hybrid lube with your silicone sex toys. Although hybrid lubes contain a little silicone, there is not enough to cause any damage.
If you'd like some more in-depth information about the suitability of different lubes with silicone toys - we've created a dedicated FAQs section below that covers everything you need to know.
Note
This guide was originally published in June 2023. As part of our yearly quality assessment process (in early 2025), we evaluated every product recommendation to make sure it was up to the standards necessary to make it to this list. Here are some things we took in consideration:
- Feedback on each product throughout 2024.
- Usability and overall comfort of each lube for silicone sex toys.
- Overall trends and new emerging products.
- Industry trends and innovation.
- New lubricants launched at the end of 2024.
Sliquid H2O Lube Water-Based Natural Lubricant
Price: $$$ | Volume: 2oz, 4.2oz, 8.5oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Sex toys, Masturbation, Vaginal, Anal sex |
Safety Features: Vegan, Glycerin-Free, pH balanced, Hypoallergenic, Paraben-Free, Cruelty-Free | Features: Water soluble, Easy to clean up, Non-Staining, Unflavored, Unscented |
Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lube is a 100% Natural, completely Vegan lube that's unflavored, unscented, and very easy to clean up. It's completely free of any harmful chemical additives and is also pH balanced, making it suitable for even the most sensitive skin.
The natural formulation hasn't led to an inferior-performing product either.
Although slightly thinner than most other lubes on this list, it's still extremely long-lasting, so you don't have to worry about trying to find your bottle and interrupting a fun session.
As a water-based product, Sliquid H20 lube is perfectly safe to use with all sex toy materials. In fact, it works especially well with masturbators and sleeves - the thinner consistency feels extremely lifelike, which is perfect if you want to lay back, close your eyes, and daydream about sex with a partner.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Works perfectly with silicone toys
- Reassuring to know there aren't any harmful or animal-based ingredients
- Great for sensitive skin
- Slightly thinner than some other lubes tested
- No marks left on sheets or clothes
Pros and Cons
Customer Review
Real Slick Great lubricant with no sticky residue.
AAlan P.
Lynk Pleasure Water-Based Sex Lube & Anal Lubricant
Price: $$$ | Volume: 8oz, 32oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Great all-around lube for sex toys and other sex play |
Safety Features: Paraben-Free, Glycerin-Free, Latex-Safe, Condom-Friendly | Features: Designed to mimic the body's natural lubricant, Easy to clean, Does not stain |
Lynk Pleasure's Water-Based Sex Lube and Anal Lubricant is a thicker-consistency lube that's suitable for sex toys, use with condoms, and is free from any oils, glycerin, and parabens. Being thicker, this non-staining lube is also great for anal sex.
Water-based products can sometimes be a little thin, which means you'll have to reapply them fairly regularly. As well as staying power - a thicker lube is perfect for sex toys too - since it'll stand up well to any thrusting or gripping from your toy.
Lynk Pleasure has built a reputation for using exceptional ingredients in their range of lubes too. Created in an FDA-approved lab here in the U.S., the team has made sure there are no oils, glycerin, or parabens - making it absolutely perfect for sensitive skin on or around your genitals.
This Water-Based Sex Lube is a thicker formula than most others though - so a little goes a long way and lasts a long time.
Add all these impressive features to the fact that it doesn't get sticky or tacky, it doesn't stain sheets or clothing, and it's very well-priced - you'll have to go a long way to find a lube that's this well-suited to long luxurious sessions with your favorite toy. We still love it in 2025.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Thicker feeling that a lot of other water-based lubricants
- Works perfectly with all silicone sex toys
- Still washes off in the shower, despite being thicker
- Thicker consistency makes it perfect for anal play
- Doesn't become sticky or tacky lick some thick lubes
Video Review
Pros and Cons
Customer Reviews
Great Stuff This lube is very very slippery and works great. Also easy to clean up. I recommend it.
RR. J.
Feels like an extra cousioning as it easily slides effortlessly. ;) Works as advertised.!!
LLois V.
Gun Oil H2O Water-Based Personal Lubricant
Price: $$$ | Volume: 2 oz,4 oz, 8 oz, 16 oz, 32 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Sex, Masturbation, Sex toys, Anal |
Safety Features: Paraben-Free, Glycerin-Free | Features: High-quality ingredients, Made with Vitamin E and Aloe Vera |
Gun Oil H2O Water-Based Lube is a premium lube made with high-quality ingredients. It's a long-lasting product that's suitable for use with condoms and sex toys and even has a range of additives that leave your skin feeling hydrated after you've used it. In 2025, it feels as great as ever.
Although the Gun Oil brand is probably most well known for its oil-based lubes, the brand also makes a range of other lubes - and their H20 Water-Based Personal Lube a standout. Despite being water-based, H20 Lube lasts a long time, and just a few drops are all that's needed to get you or your toy super-slick.
While Gun Oil products, including this one, tend to be more expensive than other lubes, a quick look at the ingredients list explains why. Every ingredient is very high-quality - and there are a range of additions in there that will make your experience even more luxurious. The added vitamin E and aloe vera leave your skin feeling fresh and revitalized after use - so you don't feel like you have to shower it off immediately.
The added vitamin E and aloe vera leaves you skin feels fresh and revitalised after use
You'll also find both ginseng and guarana extract on the list, as well as the moisturizing elements. Both of these ingredients are considered to enhance blood flow - and some of our testers felt like they just added that extra bit of sensation to their toy play as a result.
So, don't panic about the name! With zero oil in the blend, Gun Oil H20 Lubricant is an excellent addition to your silicone toy play - it won't degrade your toys, it will leave your skin feeling great, and it's super-slick and long-lasting to boot.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Perfect for use with silicone toys
- Thin consistency feels really natural
- Leaves your skin feeling really good after use
- Quite expensive compared to most others
- Lasts longer than lots of other water lubes
Pros and Cons
Customer Review
Never used this product before but gotta say, long lasting and easy to clean is keen with me and also it has no smell which is very important
JJuan V
System Jo H2O Warming Water-Based Lube For Sex
Price: $$$ | Volume: 1 oz, 2 oz, 4 oz, 8 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Sex toys |
Safety Features: FDA 510(k) approved, Body safe ingredients | Features: Effective warming sensation |
System JO H2O Warming Lube is a water-based lube that feels warm when applied - giving a lifelike sensation even when using toys. The body-safe ingredients and FDA approval ensure that it's suitable for all skin types too.
While silicone is a great material for sex toys, it isn't a great conductor of heat - which means silicone toys can sometimes lack an ultra-realistic feeling that adds to the experience of using a toy. System JO has created a great solution to this problem with their H2O Warming Lubricant. Add a little to your toy or your genitals, and you'll quickly feel the warming lube coming to life. When applied to a toy, it really gives the impression of body heat, which will almost always enhance the experience.
System JO warming lube is FDA approved, made in the U.S. and only includes excellent ingredients
In terms of the lube itself, System JO knows what they're doing. It's slick, it's long-lasting, and it doesn't go tacky over time - which means no need for reapplication and trying to deal with a slick bottle. If you do find the warming sensation wearing off a little, just blowing on the lube brings it back to life and gives that glorious warm feeling again.
Now, the fact that the System JO warming lube is FDA-approved, made in the U.S., and only includes excellent ingredients makes it a premium lube in terms of cost - but if your budget allows, this is a fantastic product that will take your sex toy use to new levels, and it's one of our favorites for 2025.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Warming sensation really adds to the experience of a silicone toy
- Lube itself is very slick and seems to last a long time
- Warming sensation might not be for everyone
- A little more expensive than non-warming alternatives
- Great choice of bottle sizes
Pros and Cons
Customer Review
I love my silicone toys, but always felt like they lacked that warmth you get from real sex. This really helps to make everything feel more lifelike. I love the sensation; we use it for all kinds of sex now.
CChristine and Marcus
Tenga Hole Lotion Real Water-Based Lubricant
Price: $$$$ | Volume: 5.75 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Tenga toys, Toys that don't feel super lifelike |
Safety Features: Latex and condom safe, Oil-Free | Features: Thin formula, Enhances textures, Adds to realism, Feels like natural lube |
A new entry for 2025, Tenga's Hole Lotion is a great water-based lube in its own right, but it's mainly here thanks to how it makes Tenga toys feel more realistic. Tenga is a Japanese sex toy brand that has become quite popular in recent years. Known for their innovative, non-anatomical toy designs, Tenga toys are certainly unique and pleasurable - but they don't feel the most lifelike. That's where Hole Lotion comes in.
Using the no-drip nozzle applicator, you can line all your Tenga toys with this lube and it'll help make them feel that much more realistic while enhancing the sensations provided by their interesting internal textures. While it pairs perfectly with Tenga toys, you can of course use it with most of your sex toys, and it'll help them feel more lifelike too.
The formula is on the thinner side, and though that means it's a little less cushioning than some lubes, it feels silky smooth and helps create a sensation of suction inside your toys - which is something that thicker lubes can struggle to do. Additionally, the thinner texture is more akin to the body's natural lubricant, which amplifies the realism even further.
As it's water-based, this lube is compatible with all your sex toys, as well as latex and condoms, so you don't need to worry about breakages. One more thing - Tenga offers certain toys that are meant to be disposed of after one use, but some people wash them and reapply lube so they can get more fun out of them. Hole Lotion would probably work perfectly for this purpose - but you didn't hear that from us.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Helps make all toys feel more realistic (not just Tenga toys)
- Thin formula helps bring out the internal textures, and it feels more like natural lube
- No-drip nozzle helps you put it exactly where you need it, but it will run a little bit
- Since it's thin, it's not particularly cushioning
- Can be used to make disposable toys reusable for a couple more uses - but do so at your own risk
Pros and Cons
Jizz Flavored & Scented Water-Based Lube for Sex by Master Series
Price: $$$$$ | Volume: 8.5 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Cum fantasies, Sex toys |
Safety Features: Free from parabens, oils, and silicone | Features: Highly authentic scent, flavor, and consistency |
Master Series Jizz Lube is a specialist lubricant designed to look, smell, and taste like semen. It's suited to squirting dildos but also works well as an all-round lube. It's a great addition to playing with silicone toys if you want the 'messy' sensation of post-orgasm sex play, and we'd say it's still our favorite cum lube for toys in 2025.
While all the lubes on this list are excellent for use with sex toys, it's harder to find one that really recreates the messy fun of real sex - especially if you're looking for a lube to fill a squirting dildo with. This is where the Master Series Jizz Flavored and Scented Lube really stands out.
The fact that the lube is totally water-based makes it perfectly safe to use with all your toys - so no worries there. What's more, the color and consistency are almost exactly the same as semen, so if you're looking for amazing authenticity, you're in exactly the right place. Master Series Jizz lube is so convincing we're certain you'd never tell the difference if you used it for some naughty photos or videos.
If you want realism, Master Series Jizz Lube is a great choice.
Now, in terms of the smell and the taste, not all our testers were convinced. While some said it was perfect, others commented that it smelled and tasted a little sweet. That said, it's not intended for consumption in any real quantity, so if you end up with a little in your mouth after oral, this probably won't bother you.
Aside from the very realistic visual effect, it has to be said that this is a great lube. The semen look doesn't come at the expense of slickness or longevity - so you don't have to be worried about going through a bottle too quickly. Sure, it's a bit more expensive than non-jizz lubes, but if you want realism, Master Series Jizz Lube is a great choice.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Very good all-round lube
- Long-lasting and slick, which is hard to find in water-based products
- The smell is fairly authentic, very close to real semen
- Taste might be overly sweet and sickly for some people
- Good for use in squirting toys - great consistency
- Gets even better when slightly warmed up - very realistic
Pros and Cons
Customer Reviews
Almost like the real thing Definitely got excited just from the smell...just like sperm. The consistency and texture is great. Flavor a little off . Definitely buy again💦
RRussell W.
Good This stuff definitely smells like cum. The taste is a little harsh like an artificial chemical right out the bottle. The chemical taste mellows out a little after it’s been warmed up by being used. It definitely looks and smells and feels like cum and after sex the taste is more realistic and less artificial. I will buy it again
AAnonymous
Titanmen Hydro Play Water-Based Glide Lubricant for Men
Price: $$$ | Volume: 8 oz, 32 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Sex toys, Anal, Vaginal sex, Masturbation |
Safety Features: No harsh chemicals, No scent, No numbing agents | Features: Flavorless and odorless, Thick consistency |
If you're looking through this list of lubes and hoping for something super simple that's just a great lube, TitanMen has got you covered. No scent, no odor, no numbing effects, and no warming/cooling sensation - just a super slick, thick lube that still gets the job done in 2025.
When you read about how simple TitanMen's Hydro Play lube is, you could be forgiven for thinking it's boring - but it's anything but. It's thick, long-lasting, and feels fantastic - so if you just want to forget about lube and enjoy your silicone toy as intended, then a bottle of this is ideal. What's more, the pump action top makes it really easy to use - no handling the bottle with slippy hands.
If the no-scent, no-effect, no color product sounds like the right choice for you - this is a no-brainer.
The fact that the TitanMen Hydro lube is so thick makes it perfect if you're enjoying a little anal play with your silicone sex toys. Anal is typically tighter than vaginal sex, so you might find that thinner lubes become displaced more easily. This doesn't - it stays in place to make your play as comfortable as possible.
Now, we shouldn't forget the price either. An 8 or 32-oz bottle of lube from a reputable brand like TitanMen is a steal - especially when it lasts so well. If the no-scent, no-effect, no-color product sounds like the right choice for you - this is a no-brainer.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Great to find a scent-free, flavor-free, simple lube
- Very long-lasting thanks to the thickness
- Thick consistency makes it great for anal
- Some people might consider it a little boring
- The pump action top is super-convenient
Pros and Cons
Customer Review
I have very sensitive skin, so I wanted a basic product that I knew would deliver when it comes to slickness and longevity. I'm on my 4th bottle of this now, so I guess that tells you that I'm happy with it and how it feels on my toys!
NN.G.
ID Sensation Warming Water-Based Sex Lubricant
Price: $$$ | Volume: 2.2 oz, 4.4 oz, 8.5 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Providing some heat |
Safety Features: Fragrance-Free, Vegan, FDA-Approved, Latex and Condom-Safe | Features: Warming sensation, Easy to apply, Gentle formula with natural extracts |
If you're in the market for a warming lube in 2025, we'd highly recommend ID Sensation's warming water-based sex and masturbation lubricant. It provided all the heat we were looking for with a formula that feels slick and gentle on the skin - which is probably due to the natural extracts it contains. It's also fragrance-free, vegan friendly, and FDA-approved - all good to know.
Since it's entirely water-based, this is a perfect warming lube for use with sex toys - especially those made from soft materials such as silicone.
As we mentioned earlier, softer materials don't hold on to real heat as well as glass toys which can be heated up by leaving them in some warm water - the heat from this lube is an excellent alternative.
Of course, it doesn't feel exactly like real heat, but it still provides the same boost in sensation - worth a try if you've never experienced it before. Lubes like this use active ingredients to boost blood flow to wherever you apply it, which doesn't necessarily have to be your toys or your genitals. This is what's responsible for the pleasant warming sensation, and the increased sensitivity. We think it feels great, and this lube is the best way to give it a go.
Since it's water-based this lube will get a little tacky after a while of use, but it takes a while to get there and is also nice and easy to reapply when you need it - not to mention being super easy to wash away. We'd recommend reapplying it instead of reactivating it with saliva so you don't end up diluting the formula and as such can keep the warming sensation going.
Feedback From Our Testers
- Warms up nice and gently - provides a pleasant heat that doesn't burn (this is what you want really)
- Natural formula feels good on the skin - make sure to check the ingredients if you have allergies or sensitivities though
- Perfect for use with silicone toys as they don't hold on to real heat as well as materials such as glass
- The warmth helps makes toys feel more realistic, even if they don't feel that lifelike to begin with
Pros and Cons
Jelle Water-Based Lubricating Gel by Wicked Sensual Care
Price: $$$ | Volume: 4 oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Use with tight strokers and anal toys such as prostate massagers or butt plugs |
Safety Features: Glycerin-Free, Paraben-Free, ph-Balanced, Vegan-Friendly, Natural ingredients | Features: Thick gel-like consistency, Lasts a long time, Moisturizing for sensitive skin, Easy to clean |
Wicked Sensual Care's Jelle lube may be water-based, but it's designed to be as thick as possible so it can be used for anal sex. This means it's primed for use with your very tightest sex toys, anal strokers, and other anal toys - which is why we've added it to our updated list for 2025. We're big fans.
It really feels like a lot of work went into achieving the perfect consistency to increase the enjoyment of super-constricting internal canals - or, of course, butt holes. As its name suggests, Jelle has a gel-like consistency fresh out of the bottle, and it feels very luxurious.
Despite not containing any silicone or oil, it's very cushioning and feels excellent to both apply and use.
The formula, as we keep saying, is entirely water-based and free from glycerin and parabens which, despite being common additions to lube, can irritate some sensitive skin. Herbal extracts have been added here alongside olive leaf and aloe - these ingredients help increase skin elasticity when used for anal sex, and add a lot of plush comfort when you use it with tight sex toys. It's also pH balanced, making it safer to use for sex with a partner, and vegan-friendly - with a PETA certification to prove it.
This isn't just a great lube for strokers though; since it's designed for anal sex, you can use it with anal toys such as prostate massagers, butt plugs, and anal dildos. The cushioning nature of Jelle will really help out when it comes to inserting these toys, making it a great choice if you're a beginner to anal play and are looking for something to help ease you in, so to speak.
Feedback From Our Testers
- It's very thick for a water-based lube - straight out of the bottle it's like a gel that loosens up as you rub it in
- Helps add cushioning and comfort when using very tight strokers
- Makes it easier to insert anal toys like prostate massgers and butt plugs
- Seems to last a fair bit longer than most water-based lubes, and needs reapplying less
- It feels great on the skin
Pros and Cons
Water-Based Sex Lube By Healthy Vibes Lubricants
Price: $$$ | Volume: 8oz, 16oz |
Waterproof: No | Lubricant Type: Water-Based |
Sex Toy Safe: Yes | Best For: Anal, People who like a thicker lube |
Safety Features: Latex-Safe, Condom-Friendly, Paraben-Free, Glycerin-Free | Features: Thick consistency, Last a long time, Comfortable anal, Easy to clean, Does not stain |
Another thicker-consistency lube, Water-Based Sex Lube by Healthy Vibes is great for comfortable anal or people looking for long-lasting sex lube. It's a premium lube that's condom and silicone-toy-friendly - as well as being non-staining and easy to clean.
Like the Swiss Navy lube on this list, Healthy Vibe's Water-Based Sex Lube is formulated to be thicker and more gel-like than many other water-based products on the market. Some people prefer this feeling - and it's absolutely perfect if your toy of choice is a prostate massager, anal, anal beads, or anything else that stimulates this especially sensitive area.
Our anuses don't produce any natural lubrication - and, not only that, that area is especially sensitive, with thinner and more sensitive skin. If you want a comfortable anal experience with your toys, you really need to make sure that your lube is going to do a good job of staying where it's needed. Healthy Vibes has created a lube that seriously delivers in this area.
Healthy Vibe's Water-Based Sex Lube is formulated to be thicker and more gel-like than many other water-based products on the market.
Since there are no harsh chemicals in the formulation, this lube also does an excellent job of naturally moisturizing your skin, which further adds to elasticity and reduces the chance of any uncomfortable stretching or snagging. Whatever kind of sex or play you enjoy, friction does not need to be a part of the experience - and Healthy Vibes has made sure your solo sessions are the slickest they've ever been in 2025.
Feedback From Our Testers
- FDA-approved is good to see - adds confidence for people with sensitive skin
- The thick consistency is perfect for anal and doesn't get displaced
- The thick formulation might not be to all user's tastes - not quite as natural as some
- Shame there's no TSA-approved size for travel
- Thick, long-lasting, and very slick
Pros and Cons
Customer Review
I needed a bigger, wider prostate toy to really hit my sweet spot, but I was a bit worried that it would be uncomfortable to insert. I switched to Healthy Vibes lube and it's a dream come true, no friction, no discomfort. Highly recommended.
SSimon.
What to Look for When Choosing a Lube for Your Silicone Toy in 2025
There are plenty of great options on this list if you're looking for a lube to use with a silicone toy - but how do you pin your choice down to just one product?
We've put together some helpful factors to think about to help you choose the lube that's exactly right for you and your toys.
1. Make sure it is water-based
It's easy to grab a bottle of lube without really considering what's in it. This is especially true if you're shopping in a store and don't have time to really research what you're buying.
Make sure the lube that you're buying is water-based. Take a careful look at the ingredients and definitely rule out anything that's got any oil component. Some hybrid lube is suitable for use with silicone toys - but make sure you're not buying a product that's got more than 20% silicone.
Look for water - sometimes referred to as 'aqua' - as the main ingredient in the bottle.
2. Identify what turns you on
Although lube might be secondary to the kind of toy you're playing with, you still need to think about how it will add to the experience and what turns you on.
Most specialist lubes, like warming, cooling, numbing, and flavored lube, have a water base, so you can explore different sensations and effects to find a product that really adds to the turn-on value of your play.
3. Keep in mind what you will use it for
Different consistencies of lube work better for different kinds of play. For example, anal lube benefits from being thicker than the kind of lube you might use for a handjob.
Think about what you're going to be using your lube for and find the right product. Thin lubes offer a natural feel, moisturizing lubes help to keep your skin supple and fresh, and thicker lubes are perfect for staying in place if you're exploring anal or especially large/tight toys.
4. Think about whether you (or your partner) has sensitive skin
Skin sensitivities are very common - with 60–70% of women and 50–60% of men having some degree of sensitive skin. Since the skin around your genitals and anus is especially sensitive and packed with blood vessels, it's easy to be irritated by products that wouldn't cause a problem elsewhere.
Before you buy, think about any sensitivities you have - and talk to any partner about issues they've had with lube in the past. If there are ingredients you know you don't get along with, avoid them altogether. If either of you has sensitivities elsewhere, opt for a hypoallergic lube that's free from parabens, glycerin, sulfates, or sugars.
Lube and Silicone Sex Toys: FAQs
Is an oil-based lube safe to use with silicone sex toys?
Let's start by talking about oil-based lube. No matter what kind of oil-based lubricants you're looking at, it's not a good idea to use them with silicone toys, TPE toys, or other plastic sex toys. Don't be fooled into thinking an oil-based lube sounds harmless either - whether it's coconut oil, baby oil, or massage oil, it's going to cause problems.
Oil-based lubes are a no-no primarily because they're extremely difficult to clean. This means harmful bacteria can linger on the toy, which can harbor harmful bacteria. What's more, oil can hang around for a very long time if your toy is used internally, making yeast infections and other irritation far more likely.
Oil-based lubes should be saved for external masturbation only. They're great for that - but a no-no for any kind of internal use.
Is silicone lube suitable for silicone toys?
You can be forgiven for thinking that a silicone-based lube is the right choice for a silicone toy - but this is not the case. Silicone-based lubes will damage your toy far quicker than virtually any other substance.
This is because, because of a chemical process known as miscibility, the silicone lubricant tries to bond with the silicone your toy is made from. As a result, most silicone toys will appear to melt as the two types of silicone combine. Bad news for your toy - and bad news for you, as the silicone lube will sometimes solidify and make a mess.
This doesn't mean silicone lube isn't a great product though. It's safe to use with latex condoms, super slick for anal sex, and fine to use on most non-silicone sex toys (like glass sex toys). Recently, some manufacturers have created non-reactive silicone toys - but unless you're 100% certain your toy is compatible with silicone-based lube, then avoid it.
Why are water-based lubes recommended for use with silicone sex toys?
Water-based lube stands head and shoulders above other lubes as the best for most sex toys. In fact, water-based lube is perfect for everything - anal play, vaginal sex, oral sex, masturbation, and even massage.
Water-based lubes do dry up a little quicker than oil or silicone products - but they come back to life with a little more water, saliva, or a touch more lube from the bottle. What's more, water-based products are safe no matter what kind you decide on. So, warming lubes, cooling lubes, and synthetically flavored lube are all perfectly fine to use with your silicone toy.
Do hybrid lube work with silicone toys?
Hybrid lubes are the most recent innovation in the personal lubricant world. They're a combination of water-based lubricant and silicone-based lube - usually formulated to be at least 80% water.
Creamy white in color - these hybrid lubes mimic semen very effectively. They're also slicker than a purely water-based product. Generally speaking, hybrid lubes contain very little silicone, which makes them safe for use with most toys. That said, it's always good to do a spot test on a non-noticeable part of your toy to make sure there's no reaction before you play.
So, what's the benefit of adding a little silicone to a water lube? Well, it makes your lube a little slicker and longer-lasting for a start. Also, a hybrid lube stands up to water a little better too - so perfect if you want to take your silicone sex toys in the shower or tub.
Best Lube for Silicone Sex Toys in 2025: A Summary
Lube can completely transform your experience of using a sex toy - but not all lubes work well with silicone. Oil-based lube is very difficult to wash off sex toys and should never be used internally since it can harbor harmful bacteria. Silicone lube should also be avoided as it can seriously damage silicone toys.
For the best and safest experience, the best lube for silicone sex toys is a water-based lube or hybrid lube. They're slick, easy to clean, and won't damage your toy's materials.
When you choose a hybrid or water lube, think about what your play is going to involve. Different lubes have different consistencies - with thinner lubes often feeling more natural, and thicker lubes being better for large, tight, or anal toys.
It might take a little experimentation to find the best lube for you, but as cost-effective products, it won't break the bank as you experiment - and you'll have a LOT of slippery fun with your favorite sex toys in the meantime!
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Side Note
This best of lubes for silicone toys list will be periodically updated as better products become available or products simply no longer perform as well. As with all best of lists, this will be a living document.