How to Warm Your Pocket Pussy
“There is nothing like a dame…” sings a battalion of horny sailors in the classic musical South Pacific. And while this may be true, the fact is that when it comes to sexual satisfaction, your masturbatory repertoire doesn’t always have to try to exactly copy the feeling of a live partner.
Sure, realism has its draws. But the fact is, if it feels good, it feels good.
Pocket pussies are usually designed to emulate the sensations of a realistic vagina, mouth, or butthole as closely as possible. But their uses are so much more diverse than that. Strokers, masurbation sleeves, and Fleshlights not only feel awesome, but unlike a dame, they have the exact same sexual appetite and stamina as you. They can put up with some pretty aggressive treatment, and are willing to participate in your kinkiest fantasies, no awkward discussions needed.
So how do you make the most of your always-consenting masturbation buddy? Whether you’re using your pocket pussy for stamina training, masturbation, or with a partner (or partners!) you want the best experience possible. In this blog, we’ll discuss the best ways to change up your masturbation routine, make your pocket pussy of choice feel amazing.
What are pocket pussies?
A pocket pussy traditionally refers to a handheld male masturbator sleeve that is designed to look and feel like female genitalia. It can be made from a variety of silicone and silicone-derived thermoplastic materials.
If you’ve stumbled upon this article and don’t know as much about pocket pussies as you’d like, learn more about pocket pussies through our blog article on the subject.
How do you use a pocket pussy?
Like the birds and the bees, the central steps involved in using a pocket pussy can feel pretty self-evident. But go through our simple checklist below to ensure you know the best (normal) way to use a pocket pussy.
- Before using, quickly clean the inside and outside of your toy with warm water and anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner. (Cleanliness is key!)
- Use water-based lubricant, and lots of it. Coat yourself and the inside of the toy. (Never use oil- or silicone-based lubricant with silicone sex toys, as it can cause them to degrade).
- Insert yourself into the opening (ideally at least partially erect already — if you have issues getting hard, check out some of our penis pumps!).
- Find what feels great! Pound and thrust until you…
- Blow your load. Finish. Achieve completion. You got this step.
- Recover a bit from the sweet mind-blowing power of an awesome orgasm.
- Clean and dry your pocket pussy ASAP!
- Repeat?
What are tips to make a pocket pussy feel even better?
Following the above steps will lead to a fun time, no doubt about it. But beyond that, there are a number of creative ways to enhance your pocket pussy usage, and guarantee you’re never bored.
Whether you’re looking for the most realistic feeling, or simply the most intense, there are any number of ways to make your session with your pocket pussy an unbeatable beating off.
Warming
Yeah, warming adds realism. But it also just feels nice. Warm, tight, slick are the keywords in any ideal sexual scenario. So it makes sense that you’d want to know how to warm up a pocket pussy.
First off: what not to do. Don’t put it in the microwave or oven. That’s a recipe for cooked and melted sex toy, and a kitchen full of nasty plasticky smoke. If it’s pure silicone, you can boil it, but if it’s TPE or TPR that’ll produce a melty, waterlogged mess.
First option: soak in warm water. It’s a given that you can only do this with completely waterproof toys. Some vibrating toys are waterproof, but please check the labeling. Soaking your pocket pussy in warm water for a few minutes will transfer a good amount of heat, and it should retain that warmth for long enough to give you a fantastically real jerk-off session.
Second option: buy a self-warming toy. There are certain toys made of awesome material that will absorb the heat from contact (and friction) with your dick. After a couple of minutes of thrusting, these toys will feel just like they’re at body temperature. Other toys have warming functions built into them for a great time, every time.
Third option: A straight up pocket pussy warmer. Yep, there are machines for everything. These ingenious warming rods stand vertically and plug in using a USB charger. They quickly warm to just above body temperature, and a masturbation sleeve inverted over the top will soak up the warmth within 5-10 minutes, leaving you with a perfectly heated pocket pussy.
Change up your grip
Just like using hands alone, the way you hold and grip your pocket pussy can have a big impact on the orgasmic sensations that you feel.
Try switching hands and using your non-dominant hand. Whichever hand you write with (and usually jerk off with), switching to the other can create a whole new experience. Though it may feel less coordinated at first, the benefits are many. You’ll experience a different grip, angle, and speed than you’re used to. And if you’re fantasizing about a partner who’s less predictable than your hand, it’s a great way to add some realistic variety.
Many pocket pussies will also let you try different grip strengths. Though some pocket pussies have a hard outer shell, others will let you control the tightness of the hole by squeezing your hand. Apply different grip strengths to mimic different levels of tightness, and you’ll be able to change it up as much as you like.
Use only the sleeve
If your pocket pussy does have a hard outer shell, you can still play with grip strength by removing the sleeve, and using that alone. You’ll be surprised at the difference in sensation. The jelly-like texture of the sleeve alone can be controlled with one or two hands, and allows for a larger variability of grip pressure (and pleasure).
Make it hand-free
For a different angle and the ability to pound away at will, consider squeezing your pocket pussy between couch cushions, or between your mattress and box-spring. Held firmly between cushions or mattresses, you’re emulating the experience of thrusting into a live partner by going hands-free.
This can lead to more realistic fantasizing, as well as novel sensations. Change up the angle and location, or search out your own sweet spot… you’ll be walking around your house with a whole new eye.
Lots of lube
Your new definition of “LOL” is Lots of Lube. And there’s good reason. The silicone and TPR of pocket pussies can quickly cause friction (and not the good kind) if you’re not adequately lubed up. So make sure to lube yourself and the toy before you begin.
That said, you can always get a little wild with lube. Of course you know to always use water-based lubricant, but if you’re looking for exciting new sensations, there are plenty of interesting lubes on the market.
- Try warming lube to make things extra spicy with intense warming sensations.
- Or try cooling lube for a freshening tingle to change things up.
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Then of course there’s always numbing lubricant if you’re interested in keeping your pleasure going for as long as possible.
Use your pocket pussy with a partner
If you’re using a pocket pussy because you’re between partners… well, this one won’t apply. But for those of you with a partner, don’t be ashamed to pull out the sex toys. Having a partner control the pocket pussy for you can be a deeply arousing experience. Your partner may also find it fun to watch you jerk off using the toy.
Sexy extras
Looking for even more sensation? Purchase a male masturbator toy with vibration elements, spinning and moving parts, or even an automatic blow job machine.
These are our top recommendations.
We’ll quickly walk you through our recommended pocket pussies for the most realistic (or better than realistic) sexual experience.
Our favorite cheap pocket pussy: Passion Cup - by Health Vibes
- Super budget-friendly
- Perfect for beginners
- Made from high-quality Cyberskin
- 100% waterproof with removable sleeve
Our favorite porn star pocket pussy: Sasha Grey Creampie - by Doc Johnson
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Pound into the pussy of one of the world’s top pornstars
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Made of hyper-realistic UR3 material
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Easy to clean
Our favorite realistic vagina: Fuck Me Silly To Go Vagina - by Pipedream
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Ultra-realistic masturbator with molded clit, vagina lips, and more
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Super soft, made from body-safe FantaFlesh TPE material
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100% Waterproof and easy to clean
Our favorite discreet pocket pussy: Elite Air Tight Pussy Stroker - by PDX
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Comes in a discreet black case with comfortable grip
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Made with premium body-safe real skin FantaFlesh TPE material
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Tight, controllable suction
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Removable sleeve for quick and simple clean-up
Follow your bliss.
Changing up your pocket pussy technique can lead to a whole universe of mind-blowing pleasure. Try some high-quality lube, get it warm, and go to town! Trust us: your penis will thank you.