10 Best Male Sex Toys for Virgins

Everyone remembers their first time—good or bad—and let's be honest, for many, if they'd had a step-by-step guide or a map of the new territory they were about to visit, things might have gone a little bit smoother.

If you're about to take those first exciting steps into partnered sex, you're living in a great era - here are thousands of lifelike, anatomically correct toys that let you practice and perfect your performance before the big day, faithfully matching the sensations you're going to feel.

We're here to help you dodge any unwanted surprises. Our selection of sex toys for virgins gives users a chance to experience a range of mind-blowing sensations, acclimatizing them to penetrative sex. They're also superb stamina training tools, ensuring that both partners leave the experience satisfied, glowing, and eager for more.

How We Put This Guide Together

When deliberating which toys should go on our Best of... lists, we listen closely to what our team of testers say about all the products we give them. For this list, the Best Sex Toys for Virgins, we double down on why each toy is so useful to those looking forward to their first time with a partner or to maximize pleasure if they have no intention of exploring sex with other people, and always with an eye on the following factors:

• Budget
• Material quality
• Reviews
• Customer feedback
• Brand reputation

Best Sex Toys for Virgins: Our Recommendations

Sasha Grey Pocket Pussy - Cream Pie Realistic Penis Masturbator & Stroker

This low-priced, realistic masturbator is a great entry-level sex toy. The quality of the UR3 ULTRASKYN material is incredibly lifelike; it's stretchy, thick, soft, supple, and well-sized for most penises. It's also moderately discreet compared to some bigger, bulkier masturbation cups.

For anyone looking for a realistic looking vagina to mimic penetrative sex while masturbating, and doesn't want to spend too much while they figure out the right type of toy for them, this is a great option. It's simple to use, right out of the box, too (after an initial clean, of course); lube it up, line up your favorite Sasha Grey clips, and you're ready to go.

While some masturbators have a vent that allows users to vary the suction, the Sasha Grey Pocket Pussy is fully sealed, which allows for the term Cream Pie on the packaging. With a single opening for the penis, everything inside Sasha's pocket pussy stays inside. When you're ready to blow, there's no worry about where your semen will end up—it all stays inside the toy. This allows its users to go crazy, jerking and draining every last drop out, knowing there won't be a single leaked drop of lube or semen.

As great as that is, there are users who prefer the option of a vent for suction control over a sealed unit, and it makes it that tiny bit trickier to clean, given you can't flush it straight through. That said, as a sealed unit, this toy offers strong suction for those who like it nice and tight with plenty of suction.

Results From Our Testers

• Realistic look and feel sex toy.
• Perfect for self-pleasure play in the shower.
• Good quality and value for a first-time toy and sexual exploration.
• Allows users to get used to realistic sensations at their own pace.
• Despite being super-stretchy, it might be a little small for bigger penises, with a small possibility of splitting when bigger users apply too much force.
• It's got a strong smell when you first take it out of its packaging. Thankfully, this disappears over time.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

The Male Spinner Rotating and Spinning Penis Masturbator

Not to be outdone by the incredible popularity of the Female Rose clitoral stimulation toy, this, the male version, also resembles a rose and delivers an oral sex vibrator with a twist: the twist is, its twist keeps twisting.

For users yet to experience oral sex in partnered play, this sex toy provides a quirky alternative to oral sex masturbation cups.

While no man or woman can continually rotate their head 360º when giving oral sex, the Male Spinner still delivers similar sensations to a very enthusiastic blow job. With a moderate 3" insertable depth, it's deep enough to wrap its highly textured mouth around the head of your penis with its molded lips working around your shaft.

The base is solid, easy to grip and control using the two simple operation buttons, and lined with some serious-looking nubs and ridges, you'll need a big dose of lube to keep things slippery and kind to your penis. However, ensuring this toy is suitably lubed adds to the realism of a sloppy wet blowjob.

The Female Rose introduced women that prefer external stimulation to clit suckers. The Male Rose levels the playing field with a sex toy that delivers the equivalent sensations of a very enthusiastic, sloppy blow job.

One button turns the toy on and allows you to cycle through its various vibration modes. The other starts the rotation and cycles through faster speeds before adding reversing rotations at various timing intervals.

As a USB rechargeable sex toy, battery life isn't a problem, with a full charge giving you over an hour of play on its lower speeds. It might be an unusual choice as anyone's very first vibrator, but it certainly adds a lot of fun to a growing collection.

Results From Our Testers

• An unique toy that offers different sensations to traditional masturbators
• The clear sleeve gives a great view of the penis being stimulated.
• Its detachable sleeve makes clean-up very easy.
• It's a bit louder than traditional vibrators.
• Don't be tempted to spin the lubed up toy without inserting your penis. The faster speeds are likely to expel lubrication out of the toy, making a mess you don't want to have to clean up.
• It would be great for hands-free play if you could add a suction cup base or fix it to the underside of a desk.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Healthy Vibes Passion Cup - Cheap Pocket Pussy Masturbation Cup

The Healthy Vibes Passion Cup is a sensibly-sized masturbation cup, ideal for new users. With its discreet 'hide-in-plain-sight' pack, it's unlikely to draw attention even if you forget to put it away. At an almost unbelievable price for what it delivers, it holds its own against similar toys of a far higher price.

When sex toys start to get too big to slip into a pocket, discreet packaging and inconspicuous storage become an absolute must. Thankfully, once you've stripped the shrink-wrapped outer packaging from the Passion Cup, it looks like any other plain white container. What's inside, however, is where the magic lies.

While the outer case isn't the thickest or the highest quality on the market, it's what's inside that counts. Healthy Vibes Cyberskin feels so realistic, you'll struggle to believe you're getting such lifelike sensations for under ten bucks.

Cyberskin is Healthy Vibes' own realistic TPE sleeve material, and is more than a good match for their high-quality silicone competitors. The realistic vagina entrance and textured canal make for great practice for partnered play, with enough stimulation to bring you to climax with little effort.

The case is a little thin, but that allows users to squeeze it and apply more pressure during play. For the best experience, try removing the sleeve from the case and applying as much grip as you like. Is it a cup? Is it a masturbator? It's the best of both worlds - at a fraction of the cost.

Results From Our Testers

• Amazing value for such an authentic skin feel.
• It's ideally sized and packaged to make a great travel toy.
• With care, this budget toy will last way longer than you expect it to.
• Probably the best value budget masturbator on the market.
• While the case and features may not match up to those of more expensive high-end brand alternatives, there's no disputing the performance of the sleeve

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Riley Reid Fleshlight Girls Utopia Discreet Pocket Pussy

Fleshlights are an investment. They're not cheap, but they're the original, and for many, considered the best. They're high quality and effective. The Riley Reid model is molded directly from the pornstar herself, but it's the Utopia texture and twist cap base that does all the heavy lifting.

Fleshlight's Utopia texture is reasonably tight and pretty aggressive. Its combination of ridges, ripples, and nubs provides plenty of stimulation, and the adjustable suction base helps it to grip tightly to your junk. For anyone looking for a long-lasting—providing you follow its care instructions—effective stamina training masturbator, you can't go too far wrong with the Riley Reid pocket pussy.

That said, it's hardly a pocket-sized pocket pussy. Fleshlights are pretty big as masturbation cups go, so don't expect to hide their models too easily. Designed to look like a flashlight, you're supposed to get away with hiding them in plain sight, but surely, everyone's flatmate, parents, girlfriend, or wife has got to be wise to that by now, especially when this model comes in a white pearlescent finish. That said, they don't look like sex toys if you leave them out in the open, though, so we'll give them that one, for now.

It's a very straightforward sex toy, and it looks and feels like the real thing, just as you'd expect. It's a perfect first-time sex toy for men, making it ideal practice for your future partnered play. Lube it up, wedge it between your bed and mattress, or between a couple of pillows, and you're good to go.

While they may be expensive, Fleshlight's interchangeable sleeves make it easier and more affordable for collectors to buy new insert sleeves. Just be sure to wash and dry them thoroughly, and apply Fleshlight's renewing powder (or corn starch should do the job) if you want to keep them in tip-top condition.

And if you want to take your shower play to new heights, Fleshlight sells a shower mount (suction cup base) specifically designed for the job.

Results From Our Testers

• Loved the look, feel, and sensations of the Riley Reid Fleshlight.
• Very soft and realistic flesh texture.
• The twist-to-adjust suction cap worked well, mixing softer, sloppier sensations with tighter, harder-sucking ones.
• The pearl-look case is a nice touch.
• The SuperSkin TPE holds heat, making it even more realistic. Heat it in warm water or with a sleeve warmer, and it lifts the initial experience that little bit higher.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Healthy Vibes Realistic Life-Size Male Masturbator 3D Sex Doll

This is the second Healthy Vibes sex toy on our list, as, once again, you're getting a great experience for a little outlay. Good sex dolls are expensive. Even hip masturbators like this one tend to cost a lot of money for a good experience. This model is priced like a budget option but performs much closer to far higher quality models.

As a step up from a simple stroker or masturbation cup, anyone anticipating first-time partnered sex can get a bit more from a toy with more body, but not one that's so big it needs its own storage chest. They're so good for practice and training, giving first-timers a far better idea of what to expect.

To the sex doll itself, like we said, for the money, it offers a realistic-feel and lifelike doll that feels as good as it looks. Healthy Vibes' CyberSkin moves and jiggles in all the right ways, offering an authentic penetration experience when lubed up. Poke your fingers in, slap its cheeks, flip it over—everything feels like it should. And with a great textured canal and suction control, it'll get you off without a problem.

This is a great introduction to sex dolls or to partnered sex. Weighing in at 2.2kgs, it feels good on top if you want to use it as a masturbator or simulate positions where your partner is on top. It's designed to stay put on any flat surface, so whether you're in bed, on the sofa, at the dining room table, or kitchen worktop, it isn't going anywhere until you're done.

And being slightly smaller than life size (11.5" x 9"), it'll still fit nicely in a deep drawer, out of the way of prying eyes.

Results From Our Testers

• Good weight and build quality for a sex doll usually in the $40 to $50 range.
• Nice, snug orifices with a highly stimulating vaginal canal.
• We love CyberSkin; it's a great material for realistic-feeling sex toys.
• This is a great toy for lazy hands-free sessions.
• The anal orifice filters into the vaginal canal, so loses some of the tighter sensation on full thrust.
• CyberSkin absorbs heat well, so we found warming lube a great addition for even more realism.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Trinity Vibes Penis Head Vibrator Multi-Speed Vibrating Bullet Tip Teaser

Despite being used for decades beforehand, rabbit vibrators brought sex toys into the mainstream back in the 80s. Since then, bullet vibrators have been used for every type of internal and external stimulation toys imaginable. The Trinity Vibes Penis Head Vibrator looks like one of the oddest creations you'll find on the shelves, but don't judge this book by its cover.

You don't need the best bullet vibrators with such direct targeting, yet with two bullet vibrators delivering powerful sensations directly to the glans, this is a great toy for self-exploration and maximizing orgasms while working on sexual stamina and endurance.

One of the biggest worries for first-timers is premature ejaculation. While nerves and excitement often play their part in climaxing too early, a toy like this can help to desensitize an overly-keen penis.

Whether you're a first-timer or not, this is a great edging and stamina training toy. Just be careful not to flip the dial the wrong way when you're getting close, as it'll tip you over the edge without much trouble.

If you are experienced using sex toys and a pro-level masturbator, this makes a great partner to prostate massagers. While not all men can achieve standalone prostate orgasms, wearing this penis head massager will knock penile orgasms out of the park when used during prostate and anal play.

Results From Our Testers

• The concentrated vibrations focus directly on the penis glans quite unlike traditional male sex toys.
• It delivers intense hands-free orgasms, especially when used with other toys.
• Most testers didn't need to get anywhere near the maximum vibration setting to climax. In fact, many found the maximum a bit too strong.
• Slightly different sensations were experienced when using with and without lube. We found that this was a matter of personal preference, with different testers favoring different options.
• Keep wipes or tissues close by to ensure hands are lube-free before using the remote.
• While lube might help getting the cap on, it's less likely to stay in place during hands-free operation.
• While the cap looks fairly big, it should be a good fit for most penis sizes.
• While the build quality is reflected by the price, it should still last a long time if you take good care of it.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Satisfyer Men Vibration Male Masturbator and Penis Tip Vibrator

This is another penis tip vibrator but looks a lot less fussy-looking than the Trinity Vibes model. Instead of stretching a rubber cap over the penis head, the Satisfyer Men is designed to be held. It doesn't have the biggest opening so provides a nice snug fit for most penises. However, the reason it's made it into our Best Sex Toys for Virgins list, again, is down to penis training and bolstering orgasms.

If you're a touch on the sensitive side and want something to practice or help desensitize your penis, a glans vibrator is a good place to start. This one looks fairly futuristic and neutral, with its all-black construction. It has a simple charging system, is completely waterproof (so bathtime will never be the same again), easy to clean, and cycles through 14 vibration speeds and settings.

To get the best from this toy, you need a good dose of lube; going in dry is a definite no. It feels solid, and its weight alone is enough to get good results, just resting it on your erect penis and cycling through its presets.

This model has been likened to the Cobra Libra II by Fun Factory. While they're similar in many ways, their performance isn't miles apart, which is impressive for the Satisfyer Men toy, considering their toy is around half the price.

Results From Our Testers

• A powerful toy that guides penises to a strong climax, erect or flacid.
• Well-designed packaging that wouldn't look out of place on pharmacy or supermarket shelves.
• Intuitive and easy-to-use controls that cycle through 14 settings.
• A good fit for the average sized penis – might be too tight for larger penis glans and wider girths.
• Depending on how you hold the toy and point your penis, things can get messy when ejaculating.
• Cleaning is as easy as running under a tap with soapy water.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Guybrator Multi-Speed Penis Vibrator

We looked at an entry level penis vibrator with our last item, but now, we're going all in on a higher-budget and far more versatile toy.

The Hot Octopus Pulse III Duo has two types of stimulation: pulse plate and a built-in vibrator. It's an almost perfect vibrator for stamina training and sensational climaxes, used hands-free or as a stroker, but when you finally enter the world of partnered sex, it becomes a superb foreplay toy or as a highly stimulating way for both partners to reach orgasm without penetration.

First, let's talk about that pulse plate. It's positioned to hit the back of the glans on the frenulum. As its name suggests, it pulses back and forth (like a piston or a jackhammer) instead of using conventional vibrations, and it does that in various patterns and power levels. Hold the power button for 3 seconds to turn it on, and then with each press, you cycle through 6 patterns.

On the other side of the toy, there are plus and minus buttons, allowing you to adjust the intensity over 9 levels. There's one last pulse option: if you hold the plus button for 3 seconds, the toy goes into Turbo Mode, the highest intensity with the fastest steady pulse.

It works like a kind of vibrating cock ring but all the intensity is aimed exactly where it needs for both partners: against the head of the penis and directly to the clitoris. I can't think of another toy that couples can play with that doesn't favor one over the other.

Okay, so I can hear you asking how any of that is good for partnered play? Well, the toy also features a vibrator that's positioned to deliver its strongest sensations to the outer shell. As the diagrams on the packaging show, if you place the Pulse Duo between two partners, the toy's wings hold it place around the penis, while you lay still or gently grind against each other.

For this, there's a wireless remote that cycles the vibrator function through three intensities. While it may not have the variation of the pulse plate, it still packs plenty of punch with good, strong sensations.

It's a lot of fun for couples, especially those who aren't ready for or find penetrative sex uncomfortable or painful. And if you're looking for even more options, it works just fine for standalone clitoral stimulation, used as you would a regular or finger vibrator or a magic wand.

Results From Our Testers

• Good for solo play, but it's incredibly playful and inventive for couples.
• It's well built, solid, easy to operate, and it absolutely gets the job done.
• While you can lube it up and use it as a stroker, the simplicity and
• It comes with a nice storage bag that protects the silicone from contact with other toys. It also helps keep it clean, as the tactile silicone picks up dust and fluff quite easily.
• The magnetic USB charger is great, although it didn't locate as easily as some others.
• The pulse plate delivers a good range of patterns with powerful intensity.

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Customer Reviews

Fun Factory Manta Rechargeable Penis Vibrator and Male Masturbator

Fun Factory's Manta takes a different approach to penis-pleasure sex toys. There are strokers and there are vibrators; the Manta is both, and it looks a little different from other toys of this ilk. At first glance, it looks like a traditional vibrator, with a long shaft, but at one end there's a hooped handle and well-sized buttons, making it extremely ergonomic, and at the other a claw-like opening that resembles the wings of a manta ray.

It's those wings that make the difference. This vibrator is designed to wrap around any penis, as the stretchy silicone gives enough for all but the biggest and widest appendages. Hold it still on the shaft or glans, and its powerful rumbly vibrations will stimulate most users to a healthy climax. Lube it up—and the clever ridges in its wings hold lube so well you'll only have to reapply for the longest sessions—and it becomes a slippery stroker with a bonus buzz.

For the more creative users, you may already have figured out a dozen more ways you can use it on yourself and your partner. Latch it on to the base of the penis during Missionary and sandwich it between you and your partner, and Manta will buzz at her clitoris, adding mutual pleasure. With a male partner on top, switch it around and it'll stimulate his perineum. Add it to blow jobs, or use it to take a break during partnered masturbation, it's a versatile toy.

Some of our testers said their female partners could feel the strongest vibrations through their partner's penis during penetration, and others said it was a great toy to use without them, as the ridged outer provided as much stimulation as you'd get from clitoral vibrators. It'll get the job done if you've left your wand vibrator at home or it's out of charge.

For first-timers and virgins, this is another great stamina trainer, but this time it's a quality piece of German manufacturing. It feels high-quality as soon as you take it out of the box: it's solid, the motor is powerful yet super quiet, the silicone is velvety and soft, and while it's not the cheapest of toys on the market, it's priced to offer great value, a long life, and a big buzz for solo players and couples.

Results From Our Testers

• We liked the simple buttons that scroll through 6 power settings and then 6 different patterns.
• The loop at the end of the handle was surprisingly useful during both solo masturbation and partnered sex. It made it that much easier to handle and maneuver.
• The 2-button travel safe feature is great news for any traveller who's had a toy start buzzing in their hand luggage or suitcase.
• The wings provide different sensations from light flutters to strong vibrations—there's a speed or pattern for almost everyone.
• It provides plenty of external pleasure for partner-play and clitoral stimulation, and for some, they'll feel the vibration through their partner's penis inside the vagina.
• With its 100% waterproof design, it's some of the most fun you can have in the bath with your partner, and it makes cleanup incredibly easy.
• Most of our testers really liked this toy, but a few found that it wasn't the best vibrator for their penises.
• There were mixed opinions on the loudness of the toy: some thought it was exceptionally quiet where others found it to be quite loud on its most intense settings.

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Lynk Pleasure Water-Based Sex Lube

One of the things that those who haven't had sex yet might struggle to picture is how penetration feels. For most couples, a mouth or an aroused vagina self-lubricates to create a slippery, friction-free experience. For anyone who, for whatever reason, doesn't create enough of their own natural lubrication, lube provides a well-placed helping hand.

For those yet to experience sex—to simulate that slippery vagina feeling—lubing up a masturbation cup or stroker, or your hand when you masturbate, is a simple way to get a good idea of what to expect.

An excellent all-rounder, Lynk Pleasure's anal lube is thick enough for nervous newbies, soft enough for sensitive skin, and slick enough for slippery wet sex, every type of masturbation, and adventurous sex toy play

It's super safe, water-based, so it's perfect for condoms and (almost all) sex toys, it's thick enough to provide a little added cushioning for first timers, anal play, and anal sex. It's also really good value.

One of the biggest issues with lube is drying out. While no lube lasts forever, better-quality products last a long time, and this is one of those. If your sessions last long enough for the lubrication to start feeling a little sticky or if it's drying out, you won't necessarily have to reapply another coating, as this product reactivates with a little water. Whether you add some of your own spit or have a handy spray nearby, your first application should be all you need.

Results From Our Testers

• Many of our testers were surprised by its texture and long-lasting performance, comparing it to longer-lasting and slippery silicone lubes.
• A nice, neutral, colorless, and odorless lube, perfect for both beginners and advanced users.
• Excellent value – especially when bought in the giant 32oz bottle.
• The pump dispenser makes delivery and application easier than bottles with click-top lids.
• Easy clean-up.
• Some testers found that the lube started to dry out during longer sessions, but were surprised at how well it reactivated with a little more water as recommended.

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How to Choose the Best Sex Toy When You’re a Virgin

With a lifetime of sex ahead of you, you'll be wondering what each experience will feel like, how you'll perform, and how you can avoid any embarrassing moments that make you look like you don't know what you're doing. As difficult as it can be during those first few times, communication and consent take a lot of the confusion and worry away, allowing you to explore each other together and get the most out of your experience. Sex toys can help you practice your technique and understand how both partners' genitals work together, and build the stamina you want to ensure you both get what you need.

If you're a virgin with no intention of exploring partnered sex yet, sex toys are a totally normal way to maximize pleasure.

So if you're a virgin in the market for a sex toy to kick start your journey of self-discovery, here are a few key considerations.

1. Think About What You Want to Explore

If you want to know how your body might react to certain experiences, or how another body is likely to feel, you can choose between various toys that simulate vaginal, anal, oral, and almost all types of sex.

If you're not overly experienced and exploring what makes you feel good, tracking down your ideal way of achieving the biggest rush and orgasm can take time. Fortunately, as our guide shows, there are all kinds of toys that do quite different things. The bigger your collection grows, the more prepared you'll be for every eventuality.

2. Consider Ease of Use and Cleaning

Good hygiene is essential to every kind of sex. It shows respect for your body and any partners you are lucky enough to sleep with. If you're sharing toys, make sure you're both safe, and use separate toys for different orifices. Double-dipping can be dangerous between partners.

Toys that are easy to operate and handle make sex play more natural and fluid. Consider exploring a new toys operation in advance, so you know exactly what it can do. If you're going to use it with a partner, get to grips with it together, beforehand, so you know what each other would like to try and what will get you off the most.

3. Decide Between Realism vs Vibration

As you've learnt, there are sex toys that provide an incredibly realistic experience and those that a partner could never replicate that knock your orgasms out of the park. If you're practicing for sex with a partner, stick to the toys that represent the kind of sex you expect. If you just want to find out where you line is and how crazy your climaxes can be, try anything you think will turn you on—just remember to stay safe.

For realism, sex dolls, strokers, realistic dildos, and clit suckers are leading the charge. For sensation and eroticism, there's a rumbly penis jackhammer or super-speed mechanical stroker that will give the best rabbit vibrator a run for its money. Then there's every kind of sex doll, partial or a full-sized human replica with a posable skeleton and incredibly realistic body parts, kitted out with mixed and multiple genital types, these days.

4. Don’t Neglect Comfort and Lube

Whether you're flying solo, with a partner, or a few friends, being comfortable enough to enjoy yourself is a priority. That means physically and emotionally. Emotionally, only you get to decide what you want and what's right for you. Physically, lubrication makes everything easier, frictionless, and enhances so many natural sensations.

5. Think About Whether Privacy and Noise Could Matter

There's no right or wrong age to enjoy your first time, but for many, with their hormones and libido going wild, it can happen when they're still fairly young. Whether you're in your teens, twenties, or even your fifties or sixties, if you're house-sharing, living with flatmates, or parents, privacy is a priority.

We've pointed out a few of the toys that make a lot of noise, even through a closed door. Even if you're in the bathroom, nobody shaves or cleans their teeth for 45 minutes, so be smart when buying your toys. Or at least make sure to double- and triple-check you're completely alone before breaking out the toy box.

Summary

With strokers, vibrators, Fleshlights, and sex toys of every type, today's market caters to everyone and anyone. The amount of appropriate sex toys for virgins is so extensive that any nervous newbie can track down a toy that will help them understand what to expect and to train for the big day in the peace of their own home.

If you choose well-reviewed toys from reputable manufacturers, they should last as long as your sexual exploration needs them to.