10 Best Lubes for Handjobs in 2024

Handjobs are underrated. They're great for foreplay, and can even turn into a spectacular main event if you're lucky enough to receive one from someone who knows what they're doing! Another way to give handjobs some extra oomph, though, is by incorporating some high-quality lube.

We've already listed our favorite lubes for general purposes, but here we've gotten more specific - we've detailed all our favorite lubes for handjobs, explaining exactly how they're great for the act. We've also listed some of the considerations you need to make to find the perfect handjob lube for you.

Without further ado, let's go!

How We Put Together This Guide

This list of the best handjob lubes was compiled based on the following criteria, in no particular order:

• Longevity
• Slipperiness
• Comfort
• Ease of use
• Tackiness (or lack thereof)
• Types and formats
• Results from our testers
• Customer reviews

Best Lubes for Handjobs: Our Recommendation

Black Label Silicone-Based Sex Lube by Healthy Vibes

The lube we have deemed to be the absolute best for handjobs is this silicone-based lube by Healthy Vibes. It's a very premium-feeling formula that is extremely slick (one of the slipperiest lubes we've ever tried), lasts a very long time, and is nice and moisturizing on the skin.

Unlike water-based formulas, this silicone lube doesn't really get tacky, even if you only use a small amount. This specific formula is also very moisturizing, even for sensitive skin, which is great to see.

Handjobs are one of those sexual practices that can sometimes suffer from too much friction, which is what makes this lube perfect for the act. The silicone in the formula will keep the experience nice and pleasurable throughout as the silicone eliminates friction and adds a comfortable amount of cushioning.

Cleaning up this lube can be a little trickier than with Silicone -based lube as its formula is waterproof. As such, you'll need to use some soap to wash it away fully. While it's not compatible with soft material sex toys, feel free to use it with those made from harder materials such as glass, metal, or wood. You can also use it with latex condoms!

Results From Our Testers

• It's very long-lasting which is great for lengthy sessions and stamina training
• The formula is very slick and cushioning
• Feels great on the skin, works well for massages
• A small amount of lube will go a long way
• It's great that it's condom-friendly - you can use it with hard toys too

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Gun Oil Silicone-Based Personal Lubricant

If you're interested in trying silicone-based lube but would like something a little cheaper than our overall best lube, we'd recommend Gun Oil. It's our pick for second-best silicone lube for handjobs and it's similarly slippery, cushioning, and long-lasting as our number one. The main difference is that it's around 5 dollars less expensive!

Its formula features what they call a "three-molecule silicone blend" which seems to lend it a uniquely silky texture while remaining very cushioning and comfy.

It also lasts a very long time, thanks to the silicone, which isn't absorbed by your skin. This helps prevent it from getting tacky which is often an issue with water-based formulas. If you're into longer sessions, Gun Oil will suit you well, keeping things nice and slick no matter how long you last. It's also compatible with latex condoms and hard, non-silicone sex toys.

Since your kind doesn't absorb silicone, it can be trickier to wash off your body than water-based lube - you'll need some warm soapy water. An advantage of the formula, however, is that it includes vitamin E and aloe vera which is used to protect your skin from irritation, while also promoting natural healing, which is a nice touch.

Results From Our Testers

• The formula feels really nice on the skin - very silky smooth
• Lasts a long time making it good for stamina training
• Very slippery and cushioning, nice and comfy
• It can be used with condoms and hard toys which is great
• Not quite as premium-feeling as our number one silicone lube

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Lynk Pleasure Water-Based Sex Lube

The top water-based lube on this list is a classic that we keep coming back to; Lynk Pleasure's water-based lube gets about as close to the slippery and long-lasting nature of silicone lube as is possible without actually using silicone in the formula. Furthermore, since it's purely water-based, you can use it with all your sex toys and condoms!

As we mentioned, it's almost as slippery as silicone-based lube, which is pretty impressive. It does get tacky after a while (which happens with every water-based lube) but it's nice and easy to reactivate or reapply.

The formula is quite thick for a water-based lube. It's marketed as an anal lube for this very reason, as the cushioning makes it very suitable for anal sex. This cushioning quality helps make handjobs extremely pleasurable and very comfortable, even during longer sessions.

This lube is also a great choice for use with sex toys, being compatible with the vast majority of them. It's also compatible with latex condoms so you can keep your sex safe. Overall this is a simple product that always exceeds our expectations - you can't go wrong here.

Results From Our Testers

• Super slippery for a water-based lube
• Lasts longer than most similar lubes
• The formula feels nice and premium
• Works great with pretty much any sex toy you can think of
• It's surprisingly thick and cushioning, very comfy even for long sessions

Video Review

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

ID Glide Water-Based Sex Lube

ID Glide is our number two choice for water-based lube as it's pretty much on the same level of slickness and longevity as Lynk Pleasure's lube, but it is a little bit more expensive. Not enough to break the bank, but enough to make a difference if your budget is tight. Regardless, it's still a great choice for handjobs.

The formula doesn't contain any fragrances or other irritants, making it moisturizing and safe to use for people with sensitive skin. It is a little on the thinner side - it's slightly less cushioning than our number one pick - but it's still thick enough to stay in place, and won't run or drip too much like with lesser water-based lubes.

Additionally, it's super easy to reactivate with water or spit, and easy to reapply. This makes it quite suitable for longer sessions as it'll keep the friction away for a good while.

This lube is nice and slippery, lasts a pretty long time before getting tacky, and is also compatible with the majority of sex toys and condoms, regardless of what they're made out of. This means it's great not just for handjobs, but pretty much every kind of sex.

Results From Our Testers

• Nice and slippery, feels very smooth
• Not as thick as our number one pick, but still stays in place and is fairly cushioning
• Lasts a good time before getting tacky
• Works with most sex toys and condoms which is great
• Doesn't feel quite as premium as our number-one pick but still feels good

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

ID Sensation Warming Water-Based Sex Lube

ID sensation's warming lube is the lubricant we consider to be the best for warming up handjobs. It uses food-grade, vegan-friendly ingredients to add heat and a lot of moisturizing goodness, all while being compatible with sex toys and condoms due to its water-based formula.

The ingredient responsible for the stimulating heat is guarana leaf extract - this natural ingredient gently warms up the experience, adding a lot more spice and excitement to a regular handjob. The sensation isn't for everyone, but it can make a big difference if you find that you enjoy it - we'd recommend everyone try it at least once.

The applicator makes it easy to reapply when this happens, or you can use some water or even spit. It's not the thickest formula, but it's still quite cushioning - enough to add comfort.

You can also safely use it with most sex toys and condoms - though we'd advise you to check the labels for compatibility, just because the formula does use additional chemicals not found in standard lube. The water-based formula is also nice and easy to clean up once you're done.

Results From Our Testers

• The heat feels great - it's not too intense but adds a lot of stimulation
• Warming gets to work fairly quickly, within a few minutes
• Great for making handjobs stand out more
• Pretty slippery and quite long-lasting
• Not quite as luxurious feeling as some other water-based lubes

Pros and Cons

Fleshlight Ice Water-Based Cooling Personal Lube

On the other end of the spectrum from warming lubes are cooling lubes, such as this Ice lube from Fleshlight - it's our favorite lube for cooling down handjobs, which adds just as much excitement as lubes that heat them up. It's also noticeably high-quality, which we expect from Fleshlight products.

Though this is technically designed for use with Fleshlights, it works just as well when the work is being done by someone's hand. The cooling builds from gentle to what they describe as a "deep tingle" which, to be fair to them, is pretty accurate. We think it feels fantastic - like with warming lube, we'd recommend everyone gives it a try.

It also contains honeysuckle which helps moisturize and avoid irritation. As it's water-based it does get a little tacky after a while, but it stays nice and slick for a fairly long time before you'll need to reactivate or reapply.

As you'd expect from a Fleshlight product, Ice lube is compatible with pretty much every single sex toy on the market, as well as most condoms - always check the labels just to make sure though. Its water-based nature also makes it super easy to wash with some water and maybe a little soap if you really get it everywhere.

Results From Our Testers

• The cooling sensation is very refreshing and feels very nice
• Starts cooling essentially immediately which is great
• It's compatible with most sex toys and condoms which is always a plus
• Helps make handjobs more interesting
• Still gets tacky despite feeling quite premium

Pros and Cons

Elbow Grease Original Cream Lubricant

Our favorite oil-based lube for handjobs specifically is Elbow Grease Original cream lube. It has a super luxurious texture which is thick, creamy, and cushioning - and it stays extremely slippery for essentially as long as you could possibly need.

It was actually designed to be used for anal sex and fisting, and we can confirm it's slick and cushioning enough for both of those activities. Elbow Grease's thickness means it stays exactly where you apply it, even during longer sessions, which you'll definitely want to try out due to the formula's longevity. Running and dripping are often issues with thinner, water-based lubes, so it's a nice change to use a lube that stays where you want it.

This lube isn't compatible with silicone or latex due to the mineral oil in the formula, which does rule out use with most sex toys and condoms. However, it is compatible with polyurethane condoms, so make sure you check your labels to guarantee you don't run into any issues.

Results From Our Testers

• It's incredibly slippery, almost as slippery as the slickest silicone lubes
• It's very cushioning
• It works amazingly for long sessions
• It stays exactly where you apply it which is great
• It's a shame it's not compatible with toys or latex condoms

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Spunk Hybrid Cum Lubricant

Spunk Lube is our choice for the best hybrid lube for handjobs. Its formula is mostly water-based but it includes just a little bit of silicone, which greatly increases its slipperiness and its longevity. If you're interested in silicone lube but unsure whether to commit to a purchase, we'd recommend trying a hybrid like Spunk.

The addition of silicone in the formula helps in this regard as well, adding an extra thickness that helps it look almost indistinguishable from real cum. It's a good choice for anyone with pornstar-style fantasies of cumming buckets.

That extra thickness gives the lube more of a cushioning texture than pure water-based lube in addition to the extra slickness and longevity given by the small amount of silicone. It doesn't last as long and isn't as slippery as pure silicone lubricant, but it's quite comparable to oil-based.

As it's only a small amount of silicone, Spunk is compatible with latex condoms as well as most sex toys. Definitely perform a patch test before covering your favorite stroker in the stuff though, just to make sure. Spunk is a great choice for handjobs with or without a toy, and it's fair to say it adds a lot of visual interest to things.

Results From Our Testers

• Looks and feels very similar to the real thing, and blends in very well
• Feels great to use, and adds a lot of visual stimulation
• The added silicone makes it much slipperier than water-based
• Lasts longer than pure water-based too
• It's good that you can use it with most toys but it can be a pain having to test each toy before you use it

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Boy Butter Original Oil-Based Cream Lube

Boy Butter is an oil-based lube, and its long-lasting slipperiness is what we think makes it the best lube for lengthy hand jobs. The oil in the formula ensures that it stays nice and slick for as long as you may need it, which, in our testers' experience, can be quite a long time - as long as you can last.

This plant-derived, oil-based lube contains natural ingredients that contribute to making it a very moisturizing substance. It's great for sensitive skin, and its thick creaminess helps it stay exactly where you want it without running or dripping, which is something that water and silicone lubes often struggle with.

While it is a great choice for these things, it's still a fantastic lubricant for handjobs as it gets rid of the friction that can ruin the fun during long sessions. It's also super comfortable regardless of how tight you're being squeezed.

Since it is oil-based, Boy Butter isn't compatible with most condoms and sex toys, which is a bit of a shame. It can also be tricky to clean up - you'll need to go at it with some soapy water. Thankfully, the slickness and comfort of using it for longer handjobs makes up for these few downsides.

Results From Our Testers

• Stays exactly where you need it, doesn't drip at all
• It's very slippery and stays that way for a long time
• It's a great choice for longer sessions as it eliminates so much friction
• Thick texture is nice and comfy
• We wish it was compatible with more toys

Pros and Cons

Jizz Flavored and Scented Water-Based Sex Lube by Master Series

Here we have another cum lube, but this time it's our pick for the best lube for both handjobs and blowjobs. This is a great choice if you or your partner are more into giving or receiving handjobs and oral rather than vaginal or anal sex, if your budget is too tight for a specific handjob lube, or even if you're just a fan of cum lube and want a versatile product.

Of course, this does mean that it won't be for everyone, but if you or your partner get turned on by the sight, taste, or smell of spunk, this lube will suit you very well. The taste is a little chemical-like at first, but reviewers agree that this mellows out as you use it.

As it's a cum lube, it's also perfect for pornstar fantasies, making it look like you've blown a huge load everywhere. Though the formula is quite thick, it is entirely water-based, which makes it compatible with most sex toys and condoms. We always recommend checking the label, but in most cases, you'll be good to go. We also recommend using it with squirting sex toys if you have one.

It's a nice and slippery lubricant and it lasts quite a long time, but it does get a bit tacky after a while due to its water-based nature. This isn't too bad though since it's easy to reactivate or reapply, and doing so means you're adding a fresh helping of cum into the equation, which is always fun to see.

Results From Our Testers

• It really does look, feel, smell, and taste like cum - it's quite something
• It has a thick texture despite being water-based, which adds cushioning
• It's nice and slippery
• Lasts quite a while before getting tacky
• The taste starts out a little harsh but it mellows with the use

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

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How to Choose Your Handjob Lube

1. Choose according to your knowledge and experience

If you're short on experience, start out with a water-based lube. They're easy to use, easy to clean, and compatible with the vast majority of sex toys and condoms. We'd then suggest moving on to a hybrid of water and silicone - it keeps most of the benefits of water-based while being slightly slipper and more long-lasting.

They're trickier to clean up and are less compatible with sex toys and condoms (don't use them with toys made from soft materials such as silicone, rubber, or TPE) but they're much more slippery and long-lasting.

If you're short on knowledge, check out our guide to sex lubricant. It's full of information and tips on all the different kinds of lube available on the market.

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3. If you plan to use toys in your session, go water-based

Water-based lubes are the go-to if you're planning on using sex toys during your handjob sessions. They're generally compatible with all sex toys, but we recommend checking the labels for compatibility to make sure.

Silicone lubes are usually not compatible with soft strokers made from materials such as silicone, rubber, or TPE, so avoid them if you plan on using those toys. They are often compatible with harder toys, such as massagers made from glass, wood, or metal.

Oil-based lubes usually have pretty much the same compatibility issues as silicone. They're also quite hard to clean off and out of your body, so avoid using them internally unless you're experienced.

4. Understand the key ingredients in lubricants

We've touched on this already, but understanding the ingredients in lubes is vital to predicting what kind of experience you're going to get with them.

Water-based lubes are best for sex, toy, and condom use, silicone lubes are best for longer sessions and anal, and oil. However silicone and oil-based lubes often have compatibility issues with sex toys and condoms. Only use oil-based lubes that are designed for sexual purposes - no plain coconut oil or baby oil.

These ingredients can cause issues for people with sensitive skin, so check the labels. Some ingredients to avoid are those intended to extend shelf lives such as parabens and DMDM hydantoin. Some avoid the former as it's thought they could be harmful if your body absorbs too much (though results from the FDA are inconclusive), and the latter can cause allergic reactions.

For a more in-depth look at the ingredients in lubes, check out our ultimate guide.

6. Keep in mind the duration of your sessions

If you're into lengthy handjobs, you need a lube that'll keep the friction away for as long as possible. This means that water-based lubes are unfortunately out of the question unless you want to have to keep reapplying every 5 minutes or so.

Silicone or oil-based lubes are the best choice for long sessions. They last longer than water-based, so you'll be set with either option. Silicone is slightly slipperier than oil-based lube, but both are cushioning and long-lasting.

7. Consider buying a lube that works for you beyond the handjob

It's a good idea to choose a lube that works for the other sexual activities that you enjoy, especially if you're on a tighter budget.

We'd recommend water-based lubes if you're looking for an all-rounder. It's great for handjobs, vaginal sex, blowjobs, sex toys - everything. However it's not as long-lasting as the others, so you might need to use (and buy) more of it.

These lubes are more slick and cushioning, making them perfect for anal, and more hardcore activities. For blowjobs, we'd recommend flavored lube to add something extra for your generous partner. In this article, we recommended Jizz lube, but there are all kinds of flavors out there.

If you are looking to use sex toys, stick to water-based. If your toys are made from hard materials such as glass, metal, or wood, you might be able to use silicone with them - always check the label.

Summary

Handjobs can really be livened up with a great lube, so it's important to choose the right one. All the lubes on this list are high-quality, but you need to think about a few things to figure out which one fits you the best.

Make sure to take all the pros and cons we've listed above into account, and also consider your level of experience, what ingredients you prefer, and what exactly you plan to use the lube for. Narrowing down the list with those criteria should lead you to a lube that'll turn your handjobs into something special.