First off, this is a serious toy. I am not saying it is not for beginners (I was one), but you need to understand that going in. Haha. Seriously, no pun intended, but that worked out well. This thing is fairly large and extremely intense.
If you are a beginner, I suggest plenty of lube, a towel, and taking your time (while on your side) getting going. Or perhaps some pre-work to get yourself there. Don't push it... I am just killing myself with the innuendos! But seriously, take your time.
Once there, the inclination will be to go full out with vibe and rotation. Don't. Take your time working up to that. This isn't a race. And in that regard, it is the slow and steady with comes first (pun intended). It is about the build up and you can get there. So experiment. And do not expect this to be a 2-pump chump. It is going to take some serious time. But work with it and you will get there.
You are buying a serious toy. It can be worth it.
This is a great prostate massager. I would have left a 5 star but the price brings it down 1 notch. The remote is great, my wife uses it on me from the other room. I have tried many and the stealth is teh most powerful prostate massager I have used. If you have the money and in the market for a great sex toy, this is it. It will help your sex life