10 Best Sex Swing Positions (With Illustrations and Tips)

We sex swing fans here at The Enhanced Male, so before we dive into our best sex swing positions, we're going to give you a quick run-down on why you might want to use one.

Firstly, sex swings take weight out of the equation, which makes the sensations and motions you experience during sex unique. Taking gravity out of the equation, they protect joints and limbs from excessive strain, which makes them perfect for older lovers or anyone with mobility issues.

That said, the most common reason to use a sex swing is that they're great fun, are ideal for the most experienced or newcomers to BDSM to explore, and provide new and exciting ways to have sex.

So, that's where we come in: our recommendations and suggested sex swing positions will help you get the most out of your new toy from your first session.

The three types of sex swings

Apart from being incredibly sexy, a little kinky, super fun, and a great introduction to BDSM, sex swings also give back opportunities to those whose bodies can't manage the acrobatic and strenuous sex they once might have enjoyed (whether through aging or disability).

1. Receiver against the wall

The go-to starter positions for door sex swings. Facing towards or away from the door, the receiving partner's back or hands add plenty of stability. It's the best of both worlds, with the comfort of sitting in the swing while offering plenty of easy access for penetration.

Taking 'receiver against the wall' sex swing positions to the next level

To take these positions to the next level, the penetrating partner can sit on the swing with the receiver, using their legs to push away from the wall/door, providing a little extra motion to the genital grinding with their partner sitting on their lap. Similar to a Reverse Cowgirl/Cowboy, it's a great option for groping, stroking, and masturbating the receiving partner during sex.

2. Against the wall, the receiver spread wide

Standing positions are super sexy, but it can take a lot of effort to get the ideal penetration position. For those who can no longer lift their partner off the ground to get the best from this type of sex, a door sex swing is your new best friend.

Sex swings can make standing sex possible, while beginner-friendly spreader bars and bondage straps can help to hold body parts in one position, taking the strain off of muscles and joints. - The Tonic

Taking 'spread against the wall' to the next level

The stirrups that spread the receiver's legs are one of the features that makes sex swings so much fun. Whether it's for super-deep penetration or to fully expose yourself to the most amazing oral, it's one of the door sex swing's sexiest benefits.

For those exploring BDSM or like it hot and heavy, it's another excellent opportunity to fix your partner into the cuffs and stirrups and blindfold them to maximize their submissive experience.

If you're going to explore BDSM or add a little aggression to your sex, make sure you've discussed how far you're willing to go and always have a safeword ready for when no absolutely means no.

3. Reclined Missionary

We've said it so many times: Missionary is the unsung hero of sex positions. If you still think it's vanilla, you're not exploring all of its derivatives and the range of orgasmic sensations they deliver. It's no different in a sex swing. Having your partner floating, rocking, and bouncing against you as they slide up and down your penis or strap-on is some of the best lazy sex you can find.

Taking Missionary sex swing positions to the next level

Floating Missionary can feel even more incredible by adding a blindfold. Not being able to see will add an extra dimension to the weightlessness you're already experiencing. Also, not knowing how or where your partner is going to touch, lick, or penetrate you next makes a fun way to experience the ultimate anticipation and for newbies to explore the basics of BDSM together.

4. Laying back on the swing

Another version of sex swing Missionary, this time with the receiving partner's legs thrown over the giver's shoulders. It's an amazing option for ultra-deep penetration and focusing all your attention on the receiving partner's genitals, breasts, or chest as they lay back and take all of that glorious attention in this relaxed, weightless position.

Taking 'laying back on the swing' to the next level

The Lie Back is also a great sex swing position for foreplay. It's perfect for a healthy dose of deep penetration, and with the receiver's genitals at groin height, it's ideal to drop and deliver an all-access, legs-spread oral sex session. There's unlimited access to lick, suck, and play with every inch of your partner's genitals and butt from every conceivable angle.

5. Doggy style on the swing

Whether the receiving partner has their feet placed on the floor or set in the stirrups to allow a full-floating sensation, Doggy—sex swing style—allows for plenty of deep penetration: vaginal or anal. It's also ideal for door sex swing positions, with the receiver steadying themselves against the door to receive a solid yet suspended pounding.

Taking Doggy Style swing positions to the next level

It's a quick adjustment to move into the Wheelbarrow position, and with a sex swing, there's no worry about how long the penetrating partner has to hold up the receiver. Alternatively, by raising the sex swing partner into an upright position, the giver has the ultimate reach-around groping position while they continues pounding from behind.

As for movie lovers, superhero fans, and especially role players, with feet in stirrups and arms outstretched, they'll feel like they're flying while their partner penetrates and pumps them from behind (sometimes known as the Flying Doggy, Skydiver, or the Superman). Looping legs behind their partner's back and taking all of their weight on top of them, both partners are flying high. Now, where did you leave that cape and costume?

6. Both on the swing receiver on top

Adjusting the sex swing to achieve the optimum height, the penetrating partner lies with the seat and straps supporting their hips and back, allowing them to sit up slightly or lie all the way back in comfort. The riding partner mounts them, and as both can reach the floor with their feet, either one can guide the motion or spin the swing while grinding and writhing. Add a vibrating cock ring into the mix, and you'll barely need to move—just enjoy the sensations of floating, buzzing, and cumming when you're both ready.

Taking 'receiver on top' to the next level

Dropping the swing so the penetrating partner is close to the floor allows the receiver to be in the perfect position to give Cowgirl (or Cowboy) without the problem of holding their body weight in their knees. Now, you can ride for as long as you want without any discomfort.

7. Squatting on the swing

Standing in the stirrups with the support of the seat under their thighs allows the receiving partner to push out their ass for a super-deep probing from behind. Unlike rear-entry vaginal or anal sex on a solid surface, this sex swing version can feel more sensual and far less aggressive.

Taking squatting-in-a-swing positions to the next level

With a 360º rotating swing, the giver can spin their partner to mix between rear entry or face-to-face sex. A quick drop to their knees and they're at the perfect height for rimming and oral sex, or for the more adventurous, it makes their face an ideal target for squirters and water sports lovers.

8. Receiver on the swing, on their back 

If squatting in your sex swing's stirrups puts too much pressure on your calves and thighs, an easier alternative is to settle in with the seat under your thighs. Your butt will still stick out, providing all that same easy access, and your partner will still be able to give it a good pounding, sensual grinding, or slow fucking.

Individuals with limited mobility or with positional issues during sexual activity might benefit from positional aids. Such aids include sex swings, pillows and wedges. - Journal of Sexual Medicine

Taking 'sitting from behind' to the next level

As with any sex positions that involve rear entry, it's a great opportunity for butt slapping, hair pulling, neck nuzzling and biting, and even a little light choking.

A sex swing allows for more rocking and grinding than thrusting, but to make the most of this position, use gravity to have your partner slide up and down your shaft in a gently swinging motion. If that all sounds a little calm and tame, why not fill any empty orifices with vibrating sex toys to add a little more buzz into the mix?

9. Oral on the swing

There are countless ways of giving and receiving oral sex on a swing. Our illustration shows the receiver laying back at the ideal height to sit in front of her, perfectly placed to access every inch of her groin and butt.

Taking oral sex swing positions to the next level

Placing the receiver's feet in the stirrups and their wrists in the hand straps, they're totally at the giver's mercy. With their hands and legs spread wide, often called Flying Oral, they're in for the oral ride of their sex life. Add a blindfold and a host of vibrating sex toys, and the BDSM stakes are heightened. It's a great way to introduce newbies to their most submissive selves.

Alternatively, why not lower the swing near to the ground? You'll be in the perfect position for Queening without worrying about putting too much weight on your partner's face and neck.

10. 69 on the swing

The standard way to enjoy 69 on a sex swing is often called The Magic Carpet (or Flying Carpet). You can see why. The sex swing partner is floated at groin height with their partner straddling their face, leaning over for a mutual licking and sucking genital feast.

Taking 69 sex swing positions to the next level

Standing 69 is only for the strongest and most adventurous of athletic lovers. Well, it was until you got your sex swing. With your partner hung upside down from the ceiling and their genitals in your face, nobody has to worry about dropping anybody as the mutual feasting takes you both to outstanding and upstanding new levels.

10 Beginner Tips to Get the Most Out of Your Swing

1. Try different positions

You'll likely have a healthy list of favorite sex positions that you rotate through in bed; you can explore them all and their different sensations on a swing. With a sex swing, they'll all feel very different. Learning to use your sex swing's motion delivers unique sensations and stimulation. Not only do they look incredibly sexy, very BDSM (without having to be BDSM at all if you don't want to), and theatrical, but rocking back and forth or swinging slowly against your partner is quite different from the typical thrust and grind of being firmly planted on a bed.

If you've ever fancied hoisting your partner up around your waist but are worried you might damage your back or drop them, sex swings have got you covered. It's time to revisit your lost copy of the Kama Sutra.

2. Be sure to install the swing properly

It's imperative to install your sex swing properly. It has to support your and your partner's weight, so it needs to be securely mounted to a strong, secure beam. If you're in any way unsure about fixing a swing into your ceiling, you may be better off choosing a model with its own frame.

3. Check the maximum weight of your sex swing and stay well within the limit

Read the technical specifications of the sex swings you're considering to ensure appropriate weight limits. It's much better to be safe than be involved in an accident, so choose a model that can handle more than your and your partner's combined weights.

4. Consider starting with a door sex swing

If you're new to the idea of a sex swing, why not cut your teeth on a door swing? They're usually cheaper, hook over almost any door without any special fastenings, and are easy to collapse and store. There are plenty of exciting door sex swing positions to whet your appetite before committing to fixing a permanent mounting ring in your ceiling.

5. Always be a gentleman (until things get wild)

As we've discussed, safety is paramount when using a sex swing, so always help your partner in and out of each position, and never leave them alone in the swing. Also, ensure that straps, clips, fastenings, or adjusters are secure, properly closed, and positioned appropriately to prevent slipping or pinching.

6. Consider incorporating roleplay

Given the array of positions a sex swing allows, older and less mobile users can act out sex sessions from their younger, fitter days or reproduce their favorite movie or porn sex scenes. With a sex swing, no one has to have the kind of physique required to throw, lift, and spin their partner around like they used to or they do in the movies.

7. Make sure you’re both comfortable

Some swings have bigger or padded seats or use different materials for foot and hand straps. Pick one with straps and seats that you and your partner will find comfortable and big enough to accommodate your size.

8. Use plenty of lube

Speaking of comfort, some of our suggested positions rely on motion and grinding against each other, whereas others demand more conventional penetration and thrusting. Either way, a healthy application of lube will ensure your sex swing play lasts as long and is as luxurious as you want it to be.

9. Clean the swing after every use

Hygiene is key for all sex toys, and sex furniture is no different. Keeping everything clean and hygienic is a must to avoid any nasty stains, sticky patches, bacteria, and infections.

10. Consent is king

As with all of our sex advice, consent, and communication are key to successful, satisfying, and great sex. Discussing what you both like, hope to achieve, your greatest fantasies, and what's off the table should happen long before anyone slides into any of our suggested swing positions.

Our Swing Sex Recommended Toy List

SWING SEX TOY RECOMMENDATIONS	WHY IT'S GOOD FOR SWING SEX
Vibrating Prostate Massager	Prostate massagers always bring a little more to the table, so why not add a little extra rumble to an incredibly reactive erogenous zone during your sex swing play?
Beaded Butt Plug	Depending on who's on the giving end of the experience, a beaded butt plug can equal up the pleasure balance. It can provide a fuller feeling for the giver and the option for the receiver to play with it, adding to their partner's pleasure.
Hollow Strap On For Men	For those experiencing any level of ED, a hollow strap-on ensures penetrative sex doesn't have to stop before you want it to. As well as that, a strap-on allows all kinds of role reversals between partners of every sex and orientation.
Vibrating Cock Ring with Silicon 'Flicker'	There are so many different nerve endings surrounding the genitals that adding a bullet vibrator can only up the ante of your sex play. This option doesn't just add a little extra buzz to your fun but can help maintain erections or combat premature ejaculation with its double-loop design.
Double Penetrator Cock Ring	For p-in-v lovers looking to maximize their sex swing play, this toy has got it all. With a built-in cock ring to enhance erections, two vibrating bullets placed above and below the base of the penis (to buzz and tickle the clitoris, anus, and the giver's testicles), the added penis-shaped spine makes this the double-penetration toy that delivers on all counts.

Summary

We hope you've enjoyed exploring our best sex swing positions and have a few ideas of what you'd love to try on your new sex swing, sex sling, or door sex swing.

Use those foot straps to stretch out butts and booties, and bum and backrests to make bumping those floating hips together in ways you couldn't perceive possible before.