10 Best Fisting Lubes for Men in 2024

Fisting is a hardcore sexual practice that, despite the risks involved, can be a gateway to some seriously pleasurable anal play!

Most of the risks come from the fact that a fist is a lot bigger and harder than most penises and sex toys. Fisting without proper preparation can lead to discomfort, pain, and damage to the receiver's private parts. The best way to minimize the risks is by using a generous helping of high-quality lube.

Here, we've compiled a list of our favorite lubes for fisting. We've taken a detailed look at each of them and made some suggestions to help you make your choice.

Lube's friction-reducing properties help make sex safer as well as more pleasurable, and its cushioning nature can make fisting much more comfortable and enjoyable. Simply put, you need one of these lubes - so let's get into them!

How We Put This Guide Together

This list of the best lubes for fisting was put together based on the following factors, in no particular order:

• Comfort
• Ease of use
• Durability
• Tackiness (or lack thereof)
• Ingredients
• Customer reviews
• Results from our testers
• Types and formats

Best Fisting Lubes at a Glance

Elbow Grease Original Cream Lubricant

After having tried and tested a wide range of lubes, we have concluded that the best lube for fisting is none other than Elbow Grease's Original Cream lubricant. It's designed for hard-core anal play and as such is super thick, super slick, and super cushioning - making it perfect for anyone looking to have fun with some large objects!

Elbow Grease features an oil-based formula, which is how it gets so slippery and cushioning. Its oil-based nature means that we don't recommend using it with latex or silicone sex toys. This, however, is somewhat mitigated by how it stays slick for an extremely long time - you probably won't have to reapply it at all once you're lubed up.

Since it's so cushioned it works amazinfgly for anything involving anal play, helping make the experience comfortable and pleasurable. It's also a great lube for masturbation and massages as it's not just slick and long-lasting, it's also moisturizing for the skin. As it's so thick, it'll stay exactly where you want it without any annoying dripping.

If you are looking to use it for penetrative sex, bear in mind that the compatible condoms are those made from polyurethane, so always make sure you check the ingredients. When it comes to cleaning up, you'll need to use a bit of warm soapy water to effectively wash the oil-based formula away.

Results From Our Testers

• It was designed for hardcore anal play and you can tell
• It's super cushioned, works well for all kinds of anal
• Stays slippery for a very long time
• Very moisturizing on the skin
• It's great that it's still compatible with some condoms but a shame it can't be used with silicone toys

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Jelle Plus Water-Based Anal Relaxing Gel

If you're looking for a water-based lube to use for fisting, we would recommend this Jelle Plus Anal Relaxing Gel. It has a gel-like consistency which makes it great for anal play, and it contains natural ingredients that make it perfectly safe for those with sensitive skin.

As it's water-based you will need to reapply it after a while, but it stays slick for a fairly long time and is easy to reactivate when it gets a little tacky.

As we mentioned, the formula contains natural ingredients; it's actually an upgraded version of their original Anal Jelle, this time containing ingredients such as clove oil and jojoba for their relaxing properties, arnica, aloe, and vitamin E for their skin-soothing effects, and olive leaf extract for extra protection. Additionally, it contains no glycerin, parabens, or glycol, which are ingredients that some like to avoid.

Its water-based mature means Jelle Plus is compatible with latex condoms and silicone sex toys, making it great not just for fisting, but for most varieties of sex and masturbation. It's very easy to clean up, and also fully vegan, meaning it can be used by, essentially, everyone!

Results From Our Testers

• The gel-like texture is unusual for water-based lube, but it's super cushioning and makes anal play comfortable
• It lasts quite a long time for a water-based lube
• The formula feels great and contains natural ingredients
• A good choice for anyone with sensitive skin
• It gets tacky after a while and you'll need to reapply or reactivate

Pros and Cons

Silicone-Based Sex Lube Black Label Lubricant by Healthy Vibes

Our pick for the best silicone lube for fisting is this Black Label lube from Healthy Vibes. It's a premium silicone-based formula that lasts a very long time and adds an idea; amount of slickness, and just the right amount of cushioning to help make fisting much more comfy and pleasurable.

You don't need to use much of this silicone-based lube during your fisting session - a little goes a long way. A pump or two should be all you need for a super slippery experience, but don't be afraid to use as much as you need - whatever amount you're most comfortable with.

It's a great choice for massages as well as sex and masturbation, and shouldn't leave behind any residue after being washed up with some soapy water.

This specific silicone-based formula also happens to be safe for use with latex condoms, making it a good option for anyone interested in keeping their sex safe - which should be everyone! Though it still isn't compatible with silicone and other soft material sex toys, it is perfectly safe to use with hard sex toys, such as those made from glass, metal, or wood.

Results From Our Testers

• The formula stays slippery for a very long time
• A little bit goes a long way - a couple of pumps should do the trick
• Body safe and feels great on the skin, works well for massages
• Perfect for fisting and other anal play
• It's good that it's compatible with latex and hard sex toys but still a shame it cannot be used with silicone products

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Boy Butter Original Oil-Based Cream Lube

Boy Butter's original cream lube is what we reckon to be the best oil-based lube on this list, ranking only slightly behind our best overall lube. Similar to that lube, this is a creamy, thick, and cushioning lube that's a perfect choice for fisting, and it actually has one big advantage over top pick - it's a fair bit cheaper.

The formula used with this lube is actually based on coconut oil which has been homogenized into a creamy texture that feels fantastic to apply and use. Though it starts out opaque, it turns invisible as you lather it on, but remains just as thick and cushioning, which is why it's so suitable for fisting and other anal play.

As with most oil-based lubes, Boy Butter is not compatible with condoms so we'd recommend sticking to fisting, masturbation, and massages - the coconut oil-based formula is very soothing, even on sensitive skin. Thanks to the homogenized formula, it's quite easy to clean too, as far as oil-baed lubes go. You'll still need some soap to go with your water, but you should find it takes a lot less effort to clean than some lubes.

Boy Butter lasts a very long time and stays slick and cushioning throughout. A little bit should go a long way, but of course, feel free to apply it to your heart's content. As the formula is super thick, the lube will stay where you need it and you shouldn't experience any dripping at all, which helps a lot with cleaning up.

Results From Our Testers

• Creamy texture feels great to use
• Very cushioning and long-lasting
• Super slick, great for fisting
• Coconut oil is good for sensitive skin
• The homogenized formula is easier to clean than many oil and silicone lubes

Pros and Cons

Invade Deep Fisting Anal Desensitizing Cream by Master Series

Invade Deep Fisting Anal Desensitizing Cream is another lube designed specifically for hardcore anal play, and it works very well. It's our pick for the best numbing lube for fisting as its formula contains 5% benzocaine - this active ingredient numbs wherever you apply it, relaxing the area in preparation for rough sexual activities.

Usually, we wouldn't recommend numbing lubes to beginners, but since you're reading a list of the best products for fisting, that ship has probably sailed! Fisitng is a hardcore activity that generally requires experience and as such, the use of more hardcore products like this lube can be appropriate.

Of course, you don't want to obscure any pleasure either, so be fairly conservative in your application. The formula is quite gentle which does give you some leeway, but you still don't want to go overboard as it's quite expensive.

This lube is oil-based which means it stays very slick for a long time, and it also feels super on the skin - you probably don't want to use it for massages though due to its numbing properties. Additionally, it's not compatible with condoms and most sex toys - always read the label. Overall Invade is a good oil-based lube that shines thanks to how it helps your anus relax in preparation for fisting.

Results From Our Testers

• The formula is gentle and feels good on the skin
• Numbing works very well, takes 10 - 20 mins to get the full effect
• You don't need to use very much which is good as too much can be too numbing
• Nice and cushioning which helps even more with fisting
• It's a shame it's not compatible with most sex toys as it would pair well with large toys in theory

Pros and Cons

Elbow Grease Hot Cream Lube | Warming Oil Lubricant

Elbow Grease's thick, oil-based lubes are luxurious, slick, and long-lasting, and this version is no different. How it sets itself apart from the rest though is with its warming properties which can help to spice up even the most intense sexual activities such as fisting - which is also how it earned its place on this list.

This special ingredient (which is actually also found in cooling lubes) is how it accomplishes its warming effect, and it works very well, and very fast. The heat really enhances sensations by stimulating your nerves, and increasing blood flow to where it's applied. It's not for everyone, but we think it's great.

Its formula is extremely thick, which is what Elbow Grease lube is most known for. This thickness helps it stay in place without dripping, which helps with cleaning up and means you can be specific about where you apply it. The thickness means it's very cushioning, which is why it's perfect for anal play.

As it's an oil-based lube, it isn't compatible with condoms or sex toys, which is a bit of a shame but is also to be expected. It can also be a bit tricky to clean - you'll need to scrub at it with some soapy water. It is, however, extremely slick and very long-lasting - you probably won't need to reapply it at all once you've used what you need.

Results From Our Testers

• The warming effect is unique and does enhance all the sensations of fisting
• The formula is super thick which makes it perfect for hardcore anal play
• It's very slick and lasts a long time
• It stays exactly where you apply it thanks to the thickness of the formula
• Some people may not be into the warming - we'd suggest trying out cooling lube

Pros and Cons

Jelle Chill Cooling Anal Gel Lubricant by Wicked Sensual Care

Wicked Sensual Care's Jelle Chill lube is a lubricant that adds a pleasant cooling sensation wherever you apply it. This is a super refreshing feeling that similarly to warming lubes, helps add a different dimension to your sexual activities. This lube is our choice for the best cooling lube for fisting thanks to its gentle formula that manages to be nice and icy without going overboard.

Jelle Chill features a water-based formula that includes natural ingredients such as aloe and olive leaf which improve relaxation and promote the elasticity of your skin, both of which are very handy for fisting. As it's water-based it does get a little tacky after a while, but reapplication is very easy, and it can be reactivated with spit in a pinch.

Like with warming lubes it's a unique feeling that won't work for everyone, but we feel like it really adds some extra oomph to the pleasure you're experiencing. Additionally, the natural formula helps avoid irritating your skin.

Since it's a water-based lube, Jelle Chill is compatible with both latex and silicone sex toys, which is great to see and makes it not just great for fisting, but a good choice for most sex acts. It's also very easy to clean, which is very useful if you get it somewhere that you don't want to be cooled.

Results From Our Testers

• Cooling sensation works quickly and feels nice and refreshing
• Quite long lasting for a water-based lube needs reapplying after a while though
• Very slippery
• Gentle formula shouldn't irritate skin - check the ingredients though
• Some might not be into the cooling

Pros and Cons

Sliquid Swirl Lube Flavored Lubricant

Sliquid Swirl is a lube that comes in fruity flavors, all of which bring something unique to the table. We reckon it's the best lube for fisting and rimjobs as it's slippery and thick enough for hardcore anal play, and tasty enough to make rimjobs more of a treat.

The best part of this lube is that you can use it for various kinds of anal play without having to root through your drawer to find specific lubes for specific situations. If you're into both fisting and rimjobs, this lube is perfect as it works fantastically well for both of these scenarios.

Though it'll get tacky after a while like every water-based lube, it's very slippery and the flavors make up for most of the usual shortcomings.

The flavors on offer here are Cherry Vanilla, Green Apple Tart, Strawberry Pomegranate, Blue Raspberry, Pina Colada, Pink Lemonade, Blackberry Fig, and Tangerine peach. Some of these are sweet and some are tangier, but we think they all taste great. The differences can be subtle, but whatever you choose you're in for a good time, so this isn't a huge issue.

Results From Our Testers

• Flavors all taste good but the differences can be subtle (apart from between sweet and sour)
• Water-based formula is gentle and shouldn't irritate the skin unlike with some flavored lubes - always check the ingredients
• Stays slippery for quite a while but will get tacky eventually - it's easy to reapply or reactivate though
• It's great that it's compatible with condoms and sex toys
• The lack of artificial flavors is great to see

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

F-Sauce Cum Hybrid Lubricant

F Sauce is the lube we've crowned the best hybrid lube for fisting thanks to how it essentially gives you all the benefits of silicone-based lube, but with none of the downsides. It's slick and cushioning, lasts a long time, and is also safe for use with sex toys and condoms.

Though its name suggests that this product is a hybrid of cum and lube, we can assure you that's not the case! It's mostly a water-based formula with just enough added silicone to make it extremely slippery and long-lasting, as well as cushioned enough for comfortable fisting. Now it isn't exactly as slippery or long-lasting as fully silicone lube and does get tacky after a while, but its formula leaves most water-based lubes in the dust.

This makes it great for fulfilling any pornstar fantasies you may have involving blowing massive loads. It doesn't taste or smell like real cum, but that's because the formula contains no added flavorings or fragrances, which makes it much more body-safe.

As we mentioned earlier, in addition to being body-safe, this lube is both condom and sex toy-friendly. This isn't common for lubes that include silicone, so it's great to see here and means you should be able to get a lot of use out of it regardless of what you're getting up to. We're big fans of this stuff.

Results From Our Testers

• It's definitely more slippery than most water-based lubes, and it lasts longer too
• The added silicone makes it more cushioned too which is great for fisting and other anal play
• It looks just like cum - it'd be cool if it tasted or smelled like it too, but the hygiene benefits you get from the lack of flavorings and fragrances are a good trade-off
• It's great that you can use it with condoms and sex toys and get the benefits of silicone lube that you'd usually be missing out on
• It still gets tacky after a while which is a bit disappointing but makes sense since it's mostly water-based

Pros and Cons

Customer Reviews

Titanmen Triple Duty Fisting & Jack Off Cream

Titanmen's Triple Duty Fisting & Jack Off Cream is our pick for the best cheap lube for fisting. It's quite cushioned and lasts for a long time despite being water-based. And, most importantly, it's very cheap for its quality level, coming in at around 20 dollars for an 8 oz bottle that also features a handy pump applicator.

As we mentioned this lube is water-based, but that doesn't stop it from being very thick and cushioned. It has a creamy white consistency that stays slippery for a long time, helping make fisting, and other anal play, a lot more comfortable and pleasurable.

You shouldn't run into any compatibility issues as it's safe for use with most condoms and sex toys - always check the labels of your products to make sure though.

The formula is free from dyes, fragrances, flavors, glycerin, and parabens, which makes it a great choice for anyone with sensitive skin. Its water-based nature does mean you'll have to reapply it every now and then to prevent it from becoming tacky, but for the price and amount of cushioning you get here, that's only a very minor issue.

Results From Our Testers

• Very thick and creamy despite being water-based
• Super slippery and adds a good amount of cushioning
• Great for fisting as well as basically everything else
• Feels very nice on the skin even if you have sensitivities - always check the ingredients though
• Gets tacky after a while but this is common with water-based lubes

Pros and Cons

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How to Choose a Fisting Lube

1. Choose according to your level of experience

We'd recommend that you use your level of experience to inform which kind of lube to get. Water-based lube is perfect for beginners as it's always body-safe, easy to clean, and compatible with basically everything. Water and silicone hybrid lubes are very similar to pure water-based.

Silicone-based lubricants are a good choice for intermediate users. It's more slippery and long-lasting than water-based lube, but it has more incompatibilities - it's not always usable with latex condoms or silicone sex toys. It's also a bit harder to clean than water, but usually a similar level of body-safe.

Oil-based lubricant is one for the experts. It's incredibly slippery and long-lasting, but has similar compatibility issues to silicone toys, being incompatible with most condoms and soft sex toys. Additionally, it's harder to clean and more staining than water-based lube, and can cause problems such as yeast infections.) if not fully flushed out of the body. Many people stand by it for its amazing slickness and longevity though!

As you're reading an article about anal fisting, your level of sexual experience may well be higher than the average person's. However, always stick to what you're comfortable with, and don't feel the need to push yourself too much unless you can safely do so with a trusted sexual partner!

2. Keep an eye on the ingredients

Always check the ingredients! You're probably well aware that lubes are usually water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, but that's not the half of it. Lots of lubes contain additional ingredients that, while usually intended to enhance the experience, can sometimes cause problems for people with sensitive skin or allergies.

Checking the ingredients is the only way to be fully aware of what is in the lube you're buying, and therefore to be fully aware of what you're putting on your skin and inside your body. It's not just about sensitive skin or allergies either - some lubes contain artificial flavorings, fragrances, or sugars that you don't want to ingest, so keep an eye out for those too.

3. If you're using sex toys, make sure it's compatible with them

As we keep mentioning, the ingredients of lube can also dictate whether or not a lube is compatible with sex toys, as well as condoms. Water-based lube is compatible with most of these things, but silicone and oil-based lubes tend to be less compatible, with most being unusable with latex condoms and soft toys made from silicone, TPE, rubber, etc.

Many silicone and oil-based lubes are compatible with hard-material sex toys, such as those made from glass, metal, or wood. However, if you're inexperienced, we wouldn't recommend using oil-based lubes with your sex toys anyway - stick to massages and masturbation.

4. If you're familiar with fisting, be explorative

Having some familiarity with fisting means you've probably already made use of some kind of standard lube, which can be a good reason to buy something new. If you've only ever used water-based, we'd recommend trying out silicone-based. If you've only ever used water or silicone-based, why not try oil-based for a change?

If you've only ever stuck to regular water, silicone, or oil-based, or hybrid lubricants with no additional effects, we'd recommend trying out some lubes that have a little more going on. Numbing lubes desensitize the area where they're applied for extra comfort. Warming and cooling lubes give additional sensations to add to the pleasure. Flavored lubes offer a lot of variety if you're also into oral. Cum lubes just look like cum - which some find to be very visually stimulating!

Each of these varieties of lubes is a step up from the standard affair and can add a lot of variation to your fisting experiences. As always, make sure to check the labels and ingredients when trying lubes that have additional effects, as they sometimes use chemicals that aren't the best choice for sensitive skin, or that you may be allergic to.

Summary

Lube is essential for fisting - it's really essential for any kind of anal play. As such, you need a high-quality lube that you can trust to give the right level of cushioning and slipperiness to add to the comfort and pleasure of the experience.

Suppose you want to find an exact match for your needs, though. In that case, you need to think about your level of experience with lube and your familiarity with fisting, as well as the lube's ingredients and what they may mean for your condom and sex toy use, and your skin and sensitivities. These considerations should help you narrow down your search and find a lube that you'll wish you'd found sooner!